And about Christmas you're more than right too... For me it's not a festive time at all! My mother died on a 29th November (when everyone starts to get ready to put the tree and starts to fantasize about Christmas), my grandmother on a 24th December (Both cancer 17 years ago - time flies), my grandfather last year 16th December, and this year 19th december I have been forced to cut a deal with my ex (not even wife) on how much I'll have to pay to her in the next 15 years. All not very festive. I really start to hate this whole Christmas shit. The bad thing here is that my son's birthday is on the 21st December !LOL