Call quit, quit.
Let your no, be your no, and let your enough be enough.
Learn when and how to call it off and withdraw from some certain things that don't impact your life positively.
Or things that make you super uncomfortable and stressed.
There are different ways to make this happen.
Just don't leave your card wasting, use all cards, and make possible attempts to make it work.
And once you find that solution, graciously use it.
I watched a comedy video online about a guy who casually went to visit his friends and hang out.
They played games and had fun in the house, but he always found it difficult to leave the house when he wanted to.
There is something that will make him continue to stay back in the house, even when he had lots of important things to do with his personal life.
He couldn't say no to the offer that comes whenever he wants to go home.
He grew old staying with his friends.
Though it is a comedy clip, this happens with people in life.
When they are glued to a thing, they find it difficult to abstain from it even when it's negatively eating them up.
I have been in a situation where a friend made me extend my stay when I went to visit her because she wanted me to keep her company.
Yes,it's not a bad thing.
But everyone has a personal life, and some certain things can be uncomfortable for someone who wants to please the other party.
A friend also told me how she lost an appointment with a client because when she went to visit a friend.
That's why excess of anything is bad, there should be a limit to everything.
Know when to cut it short quickly without hurting yourself.
What mostly results in this unpleasant situation of displeasing oneself is pity,compassion, and the fear of hurting someone we really care about.
This, in turn, can cause us to hurt ourselves, bringing regrets.
What's gonna be gonna be.......
Wishing you lots of happiness 😊
Thank you very much for reading through.