5 minute freewrite 261 prompt discuss this more

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This is my post for #freewriters 261 prompt discuss this more hosted by @mariannewest

I owned a 150 year old bedroom set, an armoire, a dresser, and a bed.
Years ago my sister moved in with her boyfriend and needed a bed for her grandkids when they stayed with her. I let her use the four poster bed that went to the old bedroom set. This was when we had no one at home but us so I was not using it. I kept wanting to ask her for it because I could use it now that my daughter is home, she is sleeping on an air mattress.

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My sister moved out of the boyfriend's house a few years ago, but they are still friends so I said nothing about the bed but have now been thinking about asking her if I could get it for my daughter, but I kept forgetting to ask about it.

Yesterday on our long drive, she told me her ex-boyfriend's daughter had moved in with him. This made me remember to ask about the bed. I said, "I would like to get my bed back. Remember I told you I was letting you use it, not giving it to you?"

She sheepishly said "It got ruined", I said how did it get ruined? She said she put it on the porch and after she moved out, someone moved it where the rain could get to it. I was upset because she could have told me to get it when she was no longer using it. She knew I was pissed and kept apologizing to the point where I told her I did not want to discuss this more, for her to drop it. I had to tell her this a few times. I am not sure why but her repeating how sorry she is, was making me get madder at her and I did not want to be that mad so not talking about it would be better. I know she feels bad and she should. Yes, I am still upset.

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But how can I stay that upset? Today once again, she drove me to the jail so I could get my son's bike and backpack. At the jail I was told they do not hold their possessions there, the police in the city where he was arrested had them. They only hold the clothes they were wearing.

I was more than upset, I was mad. They said nothing about them not being there when I was there yesterday or when I had called and spoke with them multiple times.

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On the way home we stopped at McDonald's for lunch. If I had the money for this car, I would not be eating there.

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Then we had to make a U-turn because we passed a yard sale, we found it odd that on a Wednesday they were having a sale. My sister's granddaughter was not feeling well and she let her stay home from school, so she went with us.

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At the yard sale, she wanted a bottle of perfume it was in a box marked 10 cents to a dollar and the lady said it was 25 cents and the cake spatula I bought was 25 cents, I told her I would pay with mine. Another woman said no that perfume is a dollar. I was planning on giving her a dollar instead of fifty cents, but when they jacked the price up to a little girl, it pissed me off. I told her I was going to give her extra for it but since she felt she had to charge more to a little girl, I would no longer be giving her extra money. BTW they own a huge house on the river with what looked like 3 acres of land. She did not need the extra 75 cents.

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We made it back in time for my sister's other granddaughter to get off the bus.

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My experience has been that no one cares for your possessions the way you would like. Sounds like you had a family antique that meant a lot to you. But because you love your sister, you loaned it to her with express directions to return it. Sometimes family members are lax in their attitude and actions. They feel that "you won't mind" just because they are family.

And sometimes things given to others are not viewed as important. If others had to secure them on their own, the items would be viewed as "valuable" and taken more care of. I'm sorry your antique was ruined. As a collector, I know how you feel.

Thanks for sharing. Some days are just more difficult to get through. But we find a way. Take care.

!LADY

It still upsets me that she did not tell me when it was no longer being used. It is like you said, it did not mean anything to her.

No one takes better care of your possessions than you. I learned that at an early age when I allowed a family member to play with one of my beloved dolls (after I waited so long to be able to get one).

You forgive, but never forget.

!LADY

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