I hope you missed me, I'm very optimistic hahahaha, I DID miss you, in fact I was looking for your posts.
In relation to the death of your friend, I can NOT say anything, I do NOT like to say what I do not feel, close people like you will miss him, I did not know him, sorry for my sincerity.
Another issue about the aunt , I know very old people who, whatever they see, still have very, very high hormones, that DOES NOT disappear 😀