Hello everyone!!!
I hope so you all are fine and happy 😊
We faced almost all types of people and we're happily live with those who are good to us and it's not easy to live with those who aren't good with us. We've many people around us who are bad to us but we've to live with them too.
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Why people choose to stay with people who are bad to them???
There are a lot of reasons to stay with those who are bad with us such as we have no other choice to live with others and they can't leave them too as they're so close in relationship with them.
I think they've a faith that someday people will change and their behavior towards them will also change, personally i don't have any such kind of experience where i can see the behavioral change of people but i see in drama's that people change their behavior at last when they start to realize they're wrong with them.
A worst relationship!!!
I've many examples around me as i see many cases when a husband isn't good with his and she still live with him with the only belief that one day his behavior with her will change. I think it's the worst kind of relationship when your partner isn't good with you and you've to live with him.
In my opinion, nothing will change, if anyone isn't good with you and he'll can't be good with you, it's just all the matter of getting used to it and live with the situation.
In our culture, a woman prefer to do sacrifice in order to save his relationship. She tolerate all the torture from husband and her inlaws. Even that she can't tell her parents and siblings that they'll worry about her. She tolerate all alone.
She choose to live with her because of her respect because people don't think good about a divorced woman, everyone blame the woman that she should tolerate it. There's no one to support them, That's why a woman prefer to tolerate and live with him. I don't know how it be to live in such relationship as the only those know the pain who suffers from it.
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But now I can see a change!!!
I see now our culture is changing now a days. In this type of worst relationship only the change is no one wants to tolerate, still their behavior is the same but now they don't want to tolerate and they leave each other without care about people.
It's sad to know but the divorced rate is increasing here and they're having no regrets about what they did. I think it's good that if you can't stay with anyone then leave them but i think you should give a chance to them as everyone deserves a chance. Personally I want to see this ratio decrease with time but it's getting increase with time.
That's all for today and it's my entry in this week hive learner contest in #hl- exclusive for the topic #hl-w147e1.
