When you get to success ...

in Reflections2 months ago





Do not stop behaving as when you were hungry for triumph.

Currently.

I am increasingly jealous of my balance in the use of time, that is, it is a distribution of activities on a daily basis, as far as possible of what at this age I have of six decades, gives me fullness, challenges me, nourishes me, allows me to grow and contribute.

It hasn't always been this way.

Until I really became aware of how finite we are, of what that implies, of the uncertainty of the future, of my desire to live to the fullest and to give a satisfactory meaning to my life in the present tense, which of course also goes through the filter of how much I am and can contribute to the lives of others, to the general well-being.

Life is this, it is one and we must focus on enjoying it with those who love us, and from whom we learn for the good. As we human beings mature in age, emotionally and academically, everything that is presented throughout our lives, everyone looks, only the convenient, recycles it in his brain or not, there is the power of choosing of each one.

We wake up every day, it's already a success.
One of my daughters had to start from 0 as a Venezuelan in another country as a divorced mother. It didn't help her much to have studied and become an engineer in petroleum. It didn't help him to speak another "English" language, it didn't help him to have built his credit record in our country of origin, in his city.

Instead, what did work very well for her was to be resilient, practice self-love, build emotional intelligence, live one day at a time, trust God, develop an action plan, educate herself financially, and start trusting that everything is going to be okay because she has herself and is not going to self-flagellate.
Everything in this life requires work, falling down and getting up to start again indicating the focus. The difference is to have internal knowledge, that is, to make apprehension of it.

And my call is always to work on our critical thoughts that allow us to stand better before the facts and manipulative leaderships, to feel, and to seek quality time in our lives. Is it happening to them?

When that happens there are no excuses, whether it's easy or difficult, big or small, too much or not enough, my fault or someone else's. You know him, you know him, you understand him. What will you do with what you know? Only one knows it himself.

Do not confuse giving in with giving up your value and your quality of time, without rushing and without wasting the moment.

On the cover my loving kittens in a pleasant conversation: How are things around here? And my cat responds to him. They're fine. You took a long time. I can't live without you.

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Janitze 🤭



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