I have the patience for them to go though their griving process

It's a challenge having a such a gap in the stages of grief... you've been going through the stages in the final days of her life because you were there with her, but they are starting from the beginning coming to grips with the loss. It may seem like you're "moving on" faster than you ought, but they don't realize the pain you've already been through and are still dealing with.

!BBH