My dad raised my brother and I with that same financial philosophy that your father had. His resourcefulness used to amaze me. He didn't ever buy much for himself but if an appliance ever broke down and he couldn't fix it he'd pay cash for a new one. He was so good at saving for emergencies. We never went without.
I'm sorry to hear of your struggles, my friend. Now that my mom is elderly I see how hard it is for some seniors to survive who are on social security. Society should do better to take care of the older people who've worked hard and paid taxes their entire lives. Many politicians here in the US want to dismantle the social security program so it'll be a miracle if it's still around when I can start taking benefits in nine years.
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