CAN WE FORGIVE AND FORGET?

in HiveGhana9 months ago


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Hello friends welcome back to my blog this amazing day. The name still remains @edwyno.

I'm glad to be here. For this week I will be taking about forgiveness.
My heart is filled with joy as I looked at the topic of this week.

Can we easily forgive and forget?
When we talk about forgiveness we mean letting go of and offense that was committed against a person . Not counting evil that someone done against you. Again looking at our daily experience, I chose forgiveness to be my first topic this week.

There is one thing about forgiving others who wrong you. Forgiveness to me is hard thing especially when you are seeing the offender and the mark of the evil the person committed against you.

Well, in the other hand, nurturing the evil some one had committed against me in my heart is also a heavy load. One thing I discovered is that it makes me to go through stress as I keep pondering over the evil that has been committed against me. It is also a heavy load in my heart. Because it makes my face to change as I keep meditating on the wrong he has done.

Another thing I also discovered is that when I fail to forgive it will indirect way makes me to be in bondage as long as I keep nurturing the offence in my heart.

Why do I say so, any time I see the person who offended me I will not be free to go close to him, greet him, Play with him. And I'm the kind of a person who loves to play around people. I prefer to play than to just keep quiet. But when I fail to forgive it will limit my liberty as long as the offender is there.

It also cost.
Somebody could have been in a better position to help me in particular area. Which will not cost me much but because of unforgiven I discided not to go to him. I travel far from where I'm staying to another person for what he could help me easily.without much cost

It cost more than what could have get but just because of unforgiven I paid higher.

Looking at all these, one can say that it is better to forgive, even though it will not be easy to forget what he/she has done.

Thanks for stopping by. Do have a great week ahead.

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Itd better to forgive, but forgetting mat not be possible. If you forget, that means you didn't learn from whatever happened.

Yes, forgiveness is the key to happiness and joy

Forgiveness is always for our benefit.