Relationships have. different colors to different people. Some people has relationships that are good and easy going. Others are there who have had a relationship that makes them reject everything called relationship. There are those who resort to living without getting involved in relationships because of some ugly experiences they have gotten before. Despite this, there are many whose lives turned out well because of the relationship they entered.
Relationship is a House, ensure that the foundation is alright
Every house is built to provide shelter with comfort that enhances rest and relaxation. In my own perspective, a relationship is like a house. The relationship we enter is expected to shelter our lives all the days of our lives. It should make us comfortable and afford us peaceful rest and enjoyment. So, when entering a relationship, one should ensure that just as the building of a good house, the foundation is right. Don't enter into a relationship with a wrong motive and foundation. A house without a good foundation may collapse. In the same way, a relationship with a faulty foundation can claim your life.
Relationship is a Tree, Nurture well for good fruits
Relationship is like a tree, so nurture and manure it well so that you will have and eat healthy nutritious fruits from it. When the plant is well nurtured and manured, it grows well and gives pleasant fruits. Nurture your relationship with love and good character. Don't torment it with harshness and an unpleasant attitude. What you are putting into your relationship determines how you will enjoy it.
Relationship Is A Marathon, Run With Endurance
In marathon race, endurance is required to succeed. There will be pains and stress but you will determine to fight with endurance to the end. Winners are those who fight steadfastly to the end. I have heard ladies talk about dumbing that guy for another. Well if you can't endure that one you will end up dumbing the one you are going for also. In relationships, we must learn to endure with the shortfalls of our partners. We must cover up for their deficiencies.
Relationship Is A Food, Cook For Enjoyment
As a final point, I want to say that how we cook determines whether we will enjoy the meal or not. When the food is properly cooked even those who were not hungry will be tempted to eat. When you cook your relationship well, others will wish theirs were like yours.
This is my response to the prompt from @ericvancewalton on the #memoirmonday concept. Those are my relationship tips and advice. The link to the #memoirmonday is here
