@carolkean you always speak beautiful words, thank you. I am sorry that I could not post, my laptop was not working, it kept telling me to put in A1 B2C3 and a catch phrase, my daughter got it to work for me, what would I do if I did not have smart kids.
I feel better now, it was just one of those days, I think we all have them but I wrote about it and then could not write again until today so I feel bad for leaving things like that.