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I saw an incident last week of a man who was caught at his house with two bodies of fully grown women missing some body parts. Videos of how he lured these ladies to restaurants at his location to spoil them silly. Ladies are looking for an easy way out, which isn’t easy.
I read a very true yet provocative post today (https://ecency.com/hive-196233/@ibbtammy/can-women-breathe-2wg?referral=whitneyalexx) provocative not because of negativity but because it is so true.
Her post reminded me of how I felt growing up. As kids, my siblings and I loved to watch cartoons on Cartoon Network or Boomerang. We played together and watched our shows together.
As soon as I became more aware of my surroundings, I felt unloved when I was always chased into the kitchen from our favourite shows to help out and learn to cook and do chores but my brothers weren't told the same thing or something close. I remember wishing I was not born as a girl.
“You need to learn how to be a good wife and a good mother from a tender age dear,” says the grownups.
Like good husbands and fathers roles were ingrained into men's subconscious.
Then we all grew up and I still have to balance work with men plus chores at home because I am a woman, which makes it crazy to wrap my head around as I have to work twice as hard to be a woman of worth.
“Weaker vessels” are being asked a lot, If you ask me.
When other ladies have been groomed and brainwashed into catering for men's needs and their future children being ‘the weaker vessels’ that they are.
They feel it is their right to be pampered and taken care of by successful men and delve into obscene things to shine, we forget where the problem arose.
What about men who treat women in such derogatory ways? Because they are a higher being who needs to put ladies in their place. And those who fear that their counterparts could be more successful than them; call the single successful ladies wh*res and insist their wives don't work but tend to their kids instead. Their ‘ego’ they say, is to blame.
I love it when parents make chores an all-inclusive deal and teach their sons to be great individuals, loving future fathers and husbands.
Their daughters to be great individuals as well, loving future mothers and wives. I will be that type of mother too.
We need to get it right starting with the family unit and transitioning into the society at large. A male child is not better than a female child neither is a female child better than a male. They are both beautiful gifts from God, who are first and foremost ‘humans’.
®️Whitney Alexander