I sometimes wonder while some people are embedded with unpleasant characters and behaviours.
Some people focus and live a parasitic calculative lifestyle.
They target and focus on people they mingle with in life.
Depriving those people happiness and leaving them bitter, frustrated and in fear.
They love manipulative life,they take out time to evaluate their preys before striking.
I dislike it more when their first tool is emotional blackmail.
They make you believe and trust them, and then they turn back and strike.
There are people who are so good and cool with emotional blackmail.
Most people even do this without knowing what they are doing.
And of course, they will never accept that, they are actually doing that.
They find ways to justify their actions.
But, when the table changes, and they happen to be the ones experiencing the emotional blackmail.
The outcome is always disastrous.
People who went through emotional blackmail are predisposed to distrust.
Especially to the gender and age group of the person they had the encounter with.
They tend not to be open and free with people, they find it difficult to relate with people.
They quickly restrict themselves from any form of friendship that involves more closeness.
The fear of manipulation makes them to be conserve and more of an introvert.
Though it is difficult sometimes for someone to accept and identify that he or she is being emotionally blackmailed.
People who go through emotional blackmail are those who have a soft heart/soft spot in life.
They easily have compassion for people and can hardly overlook a pressing need of someone.
They easily trust as well.
These soft spots make them vulnerable to manipulation and control.
But emotional blackmailers always have a pattern and surely show little signs before the strike.
HOW I THINK ONE SHOULD DEAL WITH EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL
Identify that little changers they show before striking.
With this, you will know the pattern and how they want to manipulate you.Try and quickly restrict some of your regular actions when they start exhibiting those toxic patterns.
Accept you are a bad person and be selfish with your own needs.
With this, they won't get to you will words.Patronise your happiness first.
This will help you to play safe and save yourself from an emotional crisis.
Thank you very much for reading.
Have you been emotionally blackmailed before?
Share your opinions in the comment section.
Best regards ✨️
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