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RE: My 7th Hive birthday. And much more :)

in Photography Lovers14 days ago

First of all Happy Birthday, my friend.

It gives me great pleasure to see you here, even for a short while, but you see, life takes us on paths we don't know.

As long as you are happy with your beautiful family the rest doesn't matter, after all in the course of our lives at some point we are forced to make sacrifices.

Have a wonderful week🥰

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Thank you for very much for your kind words and wishes my friend! How have you been doing in your new life role of a father? :)

Thank you so much for your question, and yes, I can say that the birth of my child made me see life differently, it brought me a ray of joy, every day with him is amazing, we are all still learning to understand each other and communicate, yes, something only a parent can understand.

As I have already written in my posts, I quit my job, I chose to put an end to the daily stress at work and dedicate at least a few months to my child, in life I know that money is not the only thing that matters, happiness and peace of mind can be found in small things.

Honestly, I don't regret for a moment that I resigned, it's how I was able to discover how much you matter as an employee to your boss and, moreover, I got an important lesson about trusting people.

Life goes on we just need to know who and what to appreciate.

How are you, all?😊

Have a wonderful weekend, my friend!

Yeah, I think I already knew that you decided to quit your job to be able to spend as much time with your son as possible and I think it was a great decision ;) As long as you have some savings to cover the expenses that you and your family will have, the best thing you can do is to be there for them. And don´t worry about the lesson with trusting people, we all get these lessons. That´s life. Some people are not who you thought they were. Happened to me as well, quite a few times already...

Enjoy the weekend my friend, all of the best to you & yours!

Indeed it is, without money we can't do anything, especially as in Romania life is quite expensive, considering our monthly incomes.
And yes, with the savings I have, I can stay calm long enough and I also have a lot of help from my in-laws, who are very supportive.
The Romanian state keeps complaining about the very low birth rate in Romania but they do nothing to help couples to think more about having children.
The monthly income that the Romanian state gives monthly to a child is around 50 euro, honestly with this money you can't do much.
Have a wonderful Sunday, my friend!

Just 50 EUR monthly? Wow. For how long? Here in my country, the current support from the state that a family with a newborn baby gets is 350,000 CZK (=14,000 EUR) and the family can choose if you want the all the money in one amount or if you want to receive them in smaller monthly amounts for up to 3 years. Really sorry to hear that the situation in your country is so bad :/ No wonder the birth rate is decreasing over there...

The situation in Romania is not very rosy when it comes to newborns and yes, the monthly amount is a maximum of 50 euro, but I still have a chance to apply for a monthly allowance for a maximum of 2 years which will be 80% of my average salary for the last two years.
I haven't applied for this yet because I don't have all the necessary information, but I will ask the state employees to explain this to me, hopefully I will get some extra money.
Have a wonderful Sunday!