Hoarding my Pinks

in The MINIMALIST2 months ago

Greetings!

I smiled when I came across this contest because every time I come to this community to read or sit down to draft a post about minimalism, I feel a laughable sensation. The truth is, I like a simple life, I spend cautiously, and I give away clothes I'm not using. However, there is a particular set of clothes that always makes me laugh at my claim to be a minimalist person. My mind would question, "Do you know that your claim of being a minimalist is fake? If not, why are you still keeping this set of clothes?" That thought bothers me a lot, but my mind also has a way of giving it a dear ear.

As I've mentioned here countless times, I'm a church person, a committed usher in my church, and we use different colors of shirts and trousers as our dress code on various Sundays. I don't have all the outfits complete, but I have one particular shirt in triplicate: a pink shirt.

I have three of them, and although my mind always tells me to give away one or two because sometimes I don't use all of them before the year runs out, I shut down that thought and keep them, because somehow, I see them serving different purposes.

The reasons I've been keeping them are as follows:

  • The first one:

The first one was a gift from someone in the church many years ago. It's an original wear, and the texture is still glittering to this day. One holiday, I wore it home, and a friend complimented me on wearing such an expensive shirt. I was surprised because I didn't know the price. He showed me a similar shirt in different colors that he bought for N16,000, and I was shocked. I didn't know I had been wearing such an expensive piece of clothing all along. I wear this to church on days we have we are using black trousers. I don't like wearing it on a different colour of trouser.

  • The second one:


The second one was also a gift. It was given to me two years ago, brand new and still in its packaging. It was gifted to me by the CEO at my former workplace, who attends the same church when he visits the city. One day, he saw me at church without a tie and the following Sunday, he bought me a pink shirt, a navy blue trouser, and a black bold tie. The funny thing is, I intentionally didn't wear a tie that day because I needed some neck freedom, which my ushering unit leaders questioned.
This particular one, I like to wear it on the navy blue trouser it came with. I feel I'm wrong to wear it on a trouser that's not the navy blue with came with it.

  • The third one:


The third one was yet another gift. It was given to me two years ago also, and I don't know why people keep gifting me pink shirts. Maybe I have a lady's look that I haven't noticed. Lol.

This is the simplest of them all, and it's the pink shirt I like to wear casually. I don't wear it often, but once in a while after I've ironed it and it looks sparkling. I don't wear it to church. No.

So I always think, if I give away one, the other ones won't be able to fill the gap of the given away one.

Sigh!

Don't blame me.

Thanks for reading.


This is my entry to the CLEANING OUT MY CLOSET contest in Minimalism Community

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I understand. The three of them aren't substitutes so it's hard giving one away. I love the colour though and I think it suits you🤗😅 I think you would look great in pink. Or wait, take a picture wearing one of them and reply to my comment with it, I want to check something 🤔😅

How come all of them are gifts though. And most importantly, where are you meeting friends that gift you expensive clothes, I want to apply😅.

This was a nice read!

take a picture wearing one of them and reply to my comment with it, I want to check something 🤔😅

I don't have a feminine look. You know that 😂


Seriously, the fact that I keep receiving pink shirts, fine fine ones and expensive too, is surprising to me.

Naaah! You don't do this type of shirt because you're not a chorister or Maybe you've left that sector in your church.😂 That's church wears😂

I love pink shirts. My husband has one that I helped him buy. And I think it's my favorite of his shirts.

I think sometimes the sentimental value that some things have are what we can't do without. I've had a hard time giving things as gifts.

I love pink shirts
I'm not in doubt. Every lady has a love for pink. I mean, all the ladies that I know😂.

Yeah, that sentimental attachment is always real.
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I totally understand. Disposing of things has never been an issue for me, but I have this two blazers that were gifted to me a few years ago; they no longer fit, but I can't seem to give them out.

This was was a wonderful read 👍

Yeah, that feeling his real.
They're not useful but can't let go.

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You are welcome 🤗

Ha! I'm the same with navy green dresses. I can't get enough of them, no matter how similar they are. So I totally get you. Nothing wrong with holding on to a treasured type of clothing (even if really similar). :D

Thanks for your entry!

Hahahah!
It's so good I found someone like me.
As it is now, even when I get another one, I will keep all of them 😂

The last time I wore a pink shirt was during my graduation party in Ss3 and I can't even remember what it looks like anymore.

I have heard people attached pink to females and judging by your look, I believe the color would be perfect on you. It is impossible to be 100% as a minimalist and this is just one of those things that make it look like we are not practicing wholeheartedly.

Writing about this today got me really think of the pink and female thing. I just hope I'm not seen as a female in their sight. Lol😂

These shirts, I don't think I'm going to let them off soon🫣

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