I'm not fond of the word pity, as it has quite a negative connotation. I'd say that we need to have a loving and caring focus as much on ourselves as we have other people, as that creates a foundation for an actually healthy relationship with ourselves and each other.
Creating beauty and meaning around me, and authentically helping others, is pretty much the most important thing to me now. We all have much to learn, brother, but I think that we're both in a good path. 😁 🙏 💚 ✨ 🤙