When you're concern, you become concerned. Being mindful to me is a decision not a pride, to some people it is a pride. As a result of how life has treated many people in the world. Whereas, some people mind their lives as when things are rosy for them.
Which when all these things are no longer there to couple up with, they begin to cut smiles at those they avoided catching up with their smiles and likeness.
To be practical with this topic, I am one of those person who mind their ways. I really don't pay attention to people, so much. Many people mistake this to pride, due to where and how I was raised.
Some people ask me why? I tell them, it is born out of nature, to be mindful of what and how I relate and tag alone or stay around people.
It is not about the money, not the kind of people I meet, but I try to stay away from issues, as possible as I can, no matter how precautious one would take that for.
Being mindful to me is different from pride, just like I said. Many people today, just as our destiny are different, so do our characters. Some people like me, I don't associate too much, not because I want to stay away from people, but it has helped to keep me away from troubles.
Too many times, it has saved me from issues, and allow me to concentrate on my issues, and attend to the ones that come to my table with consciousness and wisdom.
Life, is very funny, being mindful is one of the dynamics way to navigate through life because human beings are too unpredictable. And as we all know, in the world of today, that to be a person of highly sensitive, it calls for one to be mindful in some certain way of live.
You see a partner squaring, and you try to persuade them into peace, before judgement, at the same time, the same people would pick up an offense and tag you an intruder.
That is why many people, like me, try as much to mind my ways, smile when it is necessary and say things when this call for and move on to the next activity.
I don't see over conversation, as something significant, more especially, if it is not coming from the positive side, that concern me or that would have something to do with me in the feature.
It is a way of life to me. I discipline myself that way, many people would take it for too many things, but to me, I know it saves me from any problems, it helps me to know if am I improving on myself discipline.
This improvement includes building Self-reliance. I build myself-reliance through being mindful, to some people, it looks like snubbing. No, being mindful is different from snubbing in the sense that snubbing is archived by adding pride to it.
Being mindful also include, watching what I say, people are always ready to use my words again me. When I discovered this, I mind what I say, when I have to say it, and the manner in which I am going to say, if to be said at all.
Many people, in different areas of their lives have been, pushed to the wall, by others, due to one reason or the other, as a result of not being mindful of what they do at any given time.
Many has lost their lives, friends, and family due to how they outplay their mindful attributes.
Even in our families, it is not everyone you freely tag alien with or take your smiles to. We all have this different and indecision when it comes to minding our ways.
I do all these just to maintain space, Self respect, dignity and protect my relationship values with people.