I once participated in a challenge where we had to choose between love or money or probably both well I chose both. Before I started writing about my point of view concerning the topic I proposed the debate to one of my friends and she said she is choosing money over love she even went to the extent of telling me that at my wedding she’ll bring her expensive G-wagon to prove to me that choosing money is better funny right? and also I went through some other persons write up concerning this debate and most people chose money and only a few chose love but the question here is DOES LOVE ALWAYS HAVE TO BE POOR” join me as I elaborate more on this discussion
I bring it to you that in every relationship be it friendship or intimacy both of these elements are very important and valuable
And to zero the mindset that whoever is in love or whoever chooses love definitely should be poor.
A lot of us have always walked around with the mindset that if a man is not financially buoyant you can't stay with him and we lose the chance to be with someone who truly loves and cares for us just because we want to be with someone richer and at the end of the day you get to lose yourself in the relationship because he believes you're just with him for the money.
Wealth is great having financial resources enhances the love between two lovers only if it's chosen right.
Creating a life with someone who loves you is the best way to show the world how wealthy you are and not just choose someone because of their wealth.
You can choose love and then you both build together and the money comes and even enhances your love cause you know you two have been through ups and downs and you know you have someone who genuinely has your back not because of the money he/she has.
I’ve seen couples who started with nothing but love grow into great wealth, they’d even tell you stories of their ups and downs.
I think a lot of people are discouraged by the stories seen and heard online about couples who build together and then get betrayed either by the man or the woman but then we humans aren’t the same you have to make your own choices and decisions regardless whatever you think the outcome might be.
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