If there's one person who has fears for literally everything she gets involved with, it is I. I'm not saying I don't still dare to do some things but I'm very sure and ashamed to say, there are more things that fear has deprived me from doing and I'm still working on how to overcome them.
It's a mystery how one fears but isn't sure of what he or she fears, I mean, I could actually just do it anyways and face the hurt or enjoy the good results so why hold back? That's what I can't explain.
I guess I let the high possibility of it being a hurt hold me back or I don't think the good result in it is worth taking the risk for. I need to put a stop to whatever I fear, I want to.
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Until I can overcome my fears for real, I'd be happy to write what I'll do if fears and the drawbacks that comes with it would cease to exist. I really like this topic as it helps me reflect on things I've been holding back from doing because of one reason or the other.
I can't even promise I won't go back to being afraid of them but I like that I'm very much aware of the ones I'm not doing because of the fears I get in them. I'll be sharing three things I fear to do but would do them if the fear cease to exist.
Saying No sometimes or more comfortably
I don't know if those around have noticed this about me or it's yet to be out. Even when I get the gut to say NO, I never feel comfortable saying it as I put too much into consideration while I do which I think isn't doing me any good as there are people who don't care at all when they tell me NO.
I mean this in different regards, whether I say NO to a proposal, an offer or to help. I hardly can say NO and sometimes I get to say it, I go back on my words to satisfy another and not myself. Although, there are instances my fears of worst cases won't even make me think of saying YES after a NO.
Investing more into more Web3 options
I know very well I am limiting myself in this aspect because of fear of losses or simply, waste of time and resources. With more research and fears gone, I believe I would do a lot more with Web3 and crypto options giving me higher chances at wealth creation for myself and family comfort in the future.
I am doing a lot recently in this regard that seem like I'm getting over the fears in this, hopefully I'll smile to the fact that I did it anyways regardless of the fears I had. I expect losses and I also expect gains, whatever comes, I'm willing to accept it and move on with a better plan.
Speak up my worries and face the crowd
They are both different scenarios but they are one and same for me from what I've studied about myself. I find it hard to rely on anyone to share what really bothers me or some past hurts I'm still fighting till now. Also taking in front of a crowd and comfortably is one experience I keep doubting I'll ever have.
I know the fear in this is only depriving me from something good and even great but how I'm not able to get rid of it to try it all out is a lot of concern to me. Hopefully, someday I would come back to this post to say, I am better and bigger now.
