Meeting The Dramatic Dad

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Hi friends, I chose to come earlier than usual you know, change is constant. It is the season of love and lots of persons are already making plans to celebrate one day for love. Well, it is not bad oooo. One question, what is the purpose of this celebration? It is always good to properly spell it out so as to avoid the abuse of it. Back to my topic for today DAD VS BOYFRIEND

There is always this special attachment that exists between the father's and their daughters and same happens between the sons and their mothers. No matter how a woman says I love all my children equally, you will always notice this little difference that exists. In most tribes in Nigeria no matter the number of children they have in the family without a male child they feel something is missing that's why most women here do all everything possible to have one or more. There is this believe that male children inherit their fathers wealth.

Coming to the attachment between the babes and their fathers. Let me take you down the memory lane. When I was just three years plus, there was this scenario that happened my father and I. During our night devotion, around 7pm, I ran outside immediately my father followed up and brought me inside. There was this deep affection that existed between my father and I. I really loved my father and felt to be with him always, that wish got broken by death because before I got to 4 years he was no more and that paid me so much. There is this study that says that girls always see their father as their partners while the boys sees their mothers as their partners. Fathers always share the love for their wife's with their daughters.

Just last week I had to accuse my husband of snatching my daughter from me because I noticed that little things I should do for her she will not allow be do that instead she insists that her Dad does that. I have been observing that for a while and just have to speak up before it goes so far. Imagine me that gave birth to her will not even carry her only her father. A times I get jealous of that too. She will make demands as if she even put some money in your pocket and the father will make sure to meet it.

Girls are also seen as weak to an extent, and for the father's that understand will like to show that since love to the daughters so no one will confuse them outside. Girls are always carried away by what they hear, so their fathers use this one to tame them and that makes them closer to them than their mothers. Mothers always want things to be done correctly and they are always home longer than the father's.

My children prefers that the father tales them to school because they know he will always buy something for them, but me...ahahah, I have made good calculations and will not allow anything in between my plans.

Bravo to the father's that care for their children not only the daughters and for those who care less, there is high need to change.

Coming boyfriend's now, it becomes a serious issue especially to those father's who care so much about their daughters partly because they don't want their daughters to have a man who will not shower all the care to her. The father's with their deep eyes are just searching for a man that will care for the daughters even more than he was doing. They a times will map out their rules and regulations and even add that they prefer to be with the girls rather than for her to go into a man's house who will not value the girls even more than he was doing. I heard of a man that still sends his daughter allowance money not minding the fact that she is already in her husband's house.

It is a pleasure to be part of this week's prompt. Hope you enjoyed reading from me. Please let me get to know your views on what I have written. Thank you

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Girls are always loved mostly by their father, maybe that's how God wants it to be, I remember how my dad will always protect me when I was growing up even till this my age dad always cares for me.

Hahahaha, that's true. Sha, we are God's last born I forgot to mention that

The father is a girls first protector, finding another protector in another man is the father allowing someone else take over his territory. He would need to ensure the Person taking over doesn't mess up

That's a potential father speaking...that's true sha

Lol, I know right 😂

Well, if I’m a father and a boy is trying to woo my daughter when I have not agreed she has reached the stage to have a boyfriend. Well, the police will separate us sha😂😂
But there is always chance to grow, get your heartbroken and understand how life is
I’ll let her pass through those stage with understanding. But the fact that father love their daughters more is the truth.

Police kee, this guy is dem serious. Yeah, it's good the girls have little experience

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So now you know why your children want their dad to send them to school.
Please loosen your calculations and be buying them something on the way before they answer in school that their daddy is their favorite parent 😂😂

Jesus'!!!!! Am coming for you babe, they will not understand....am changing small small sha, but it's all for their good...they will understand soon

Haha😂😂😂
Oh yeah they’ll understand soon

Yeah. You are right. Girls are closer to their father and the boys are closer to their mother. So sorry about your father. Thank God you have a heavenly father who took care of you.
Thanks for sharing