The part you talked about being careful with what you ask your neighbours for in order to not sound hungry or desperate reminded me of a situation I found myself in. A guy in a group for extracurricular activity which we’re both in (I’m a new member) tried to follow me home yesterday to collect food. I said I had no food but he suggested noodles. He kept pestering and I couldn’t really hide my disappointment.
If this is truly how you live, I respect that. It’s really noble. People no longer understand boundaries. We must be cautious to not discomfort others with our attitude but we should be nice as well. The key point here is find a balance. Be friendly but carry yourself in a respectful manner.
Really good post. Well done.