Adulthood the say is a scam. Though I don't know who said it first. I don't know his or her main reason for saying. But I can guess with the little experience that I have gathered as a mother now.
Friends we move straight to the topic that I have chosen from the weekly prompt. Why is adulthood hard? Which particular aspect of adulthood is hard for me?
To answer this question I will love to say that when I was a kid I so much adore most of the adult close to me. Hahaha 😂. You can't blame me because I see them buy anything they wish and at anytime they wish. This is all about buying stuff and spending your money the way and how you want it. But the aspect of how you as the adult get the money does not come to mind, because as kids we don't even know that you need to work, do business before getting the money and then spend it the way you want.
THE DIFFICULT ASPECT OF ADULTHOOD.
As I grew up I came to discover that every adult will have to make his or her own money. No one will give money again because you are now grown up.
Secondly, people begin to look up to you for help. Your siblings will begin to make demands for one thing or the other from you. This was where you were when you were small. You literally depend on others for your survival. I never cared if they have the money or not. In fact I don't even know that sometimes they don't have the money. If the money is giving to me I just conclude that they are stingy people. Maybe they just want to help me or something. But today as an adult I know that sometimes I don't have money and if today I say that I don't have to give to my children I see them looking at me the same way that I looked at my parents way back.
Is very difficult for you as an adult trying to make ends meet and every thing seems to be working against all your efforts. You make all the plans and before you know it something else comes to scatter it. Sometimes I wish I will still go back to my childhood stage. Play in the mud. Run round in the rain. Eat food when I want. Make my own demands and it will be provided by my parents. Cry when I feel like crying. Laugh when I feel like laughing. Play around with friends. Ahhh! I miss my little person. That my little me. Hahahaha 🤣. I don't know if you are missing that too? Maybe yes or no.
In conclusion, we struggle alot to survive as adults. But kids don't go through all that pains. But we need to keep moving forward and not going back.
