The road to the goal is full of lessons, my dear, Galen.
I think that self-esteem is fundamental to strengthen the structure of the personality, Galen, to understand that not everything always goes well for us and that many times we have to keep trying is part of recognizing successes or not, to know how to handle frustration.
If we go through it on "autopilot" we will not see it. You have to make the road a purpose, and learn along the way.
Behind the professional success I have thousands of disappointments, sorrows, pain, sweat, tears and sacrifice is part of success. But none of this defines me as a person, Galen, alone.the lessons that are learned and the goals that you achieve, even in the midst of everything that many define as failure, this fills me with joy, and I'm even happy because I know my abilities and I always try to be my best version.
Behind the real daily struggle there is someone absolutely motivated, disciplined, focused, but who also lives through complicated situations, and yet, they overcome and pursue their goals.
To achieve success, failure is a fundamental part, the important thing is to learn, self-motivate and keep going like a bull. 😂
Because we focus on what we need, on seeing what we have achieved, without losing sight of where we are going. At least for me, it's a very intelligent and sensible attitude towards life where I take advantage of everything and I don't walk around (life) in automatic or slay all day.
This is what life is about to be happy, because I look at success and I say to myself "wowwwww, you did it " aha, and how many times I failed, I fell, I failed " but that doesn't matter, it doesn't count, at the end of the road, what is relevant is how I achieved, the process to achieve success, and that is what generates resilience, structure to achieve what I have dreamed of.
Why?
This teaches us all that we should not be so attentive to the things we lack, to what we do not have, to what we have failed because this is part of life itself, of existence.
In addition, it is from there, where we must count, keep in mind, where we have achieved success, from where we are succeeding, being happy for the things we have achieved or that we are in the process of achieving it.
This is what life is about, not about the times that one fails or that things don't go well for us, it's when we achieve our dream.
Janitze.🌹
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