My most dumb wish, when I was a little girl, lol...
Here thinking and making decisions on their own...
Since I was a child I learned to be hurt many times by other children and by adults to guide my own life, Galen.
The tendency in the world has been to stimulate personal selfishness by way of which we deserve everything, or the end justifies the means.
Already that in our childhood was patented in what today is bullying.
In they are of innocent teasing of the funniest of the group, in personality changes to look older, or in joining unknown activities just because everyone does it... the immaturity of puberty and adolescence we do not understand until we are adults.
That's why adolescence is called that, because we suffer from maturity, we don't believe in our tutors and we are testing limits.
These are very difficult stages that we all go through, some more assisted than others. There many of the limiting beliefs and myths that later follow our lives are carved in stone.
Now I'm an adult with an inner child who can be silly sometimes. Because I'm not stupid, I've learned to multiply my points of view, thanks to my emotional intelligence. This has not been easy, I have required therapies. The only way to move forward is to let go of what is holding us back, in order to grow and make progress.
There are many ways to hurt someone, but we have to learn to feel sorry for the one who hurts me because for me, this person is garbage, a mentally disabled person who does not value himself, has neither mind nor heart, only evil. Undoubtedly there are others who are stupid because of ignorance, lack of culture, values, respect for humanity.
It seems like a lie, but there are a lot of stupid people, and they go around in disguise as a good person, some because they didn't have homes; others because they have money to spare, they don't know about moral values.
Credit to that... Speaking of human stupidity.
I've come across a few like that. That they think they are great because they have money and reliable connections in strategic places. I mean, they fuck up, and you can't do anything to them. Forgive my rude vocabulary, Galen.
I stay away, as far as possible, from those people capable of infecting me with their own emotions, and not exactly in a positive sense.
And I repeat “This stupidity is NOT mine” and I close that door. People whose attitude and energy tend to be negative, pessimistic or discouraging...never more in my way.
Unrealistic expectations, self-deception, basically.
Many times our fears are summed up in just one: living freely and having to assume the uncertainty whether that will be okay or not. And we put on masks, we hide who we really are, and it turns out that's not the way it is.
It's the best thing I can do for myself who loves, does not mistreat. And those who love themselves, do not allow themselves to be mistreated. End of the story, for this post.
Janitze.
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