Children with abandonment, single mothers
Hijos con abandono, mamá solteras
Hola Hola
Les vengo a contar sobre algo que me esta pasando con mi hijo y eso algo que se llama "sentirse abandonado". ¿Lo han vivido?
No es algo que no he notado, solo que ahora le presto mas atención.
El papá de mi hijo tiene 6 años fuera del país, mi hijo no le prestaba atención o al menos no lo hacia notar. Ahora si.
Como mamá me parte el corazón por no saber elegirle un Papá presente, amoroso y consciente de que debe estar cerca. Por mas que yo se lo pedi. Quizas es una de mis frustraciones con él.
Conseguir una persona dispuesta a ser parte de la familia y darle ese amor no es ni remotamente una solución, no todo el mundo está dispuesto.
Me he dado cuenta que cuando salimos siempre se le acerca a un papá con sus hijos, ahi es cuando me da mas dolor verlo y darme cuenta que tiene esa falta.
Por ese tipo de cosas, debemos escoger bien a quién elegimos como padres de nuestros hijos. No todo el mundo está dispuesto a estar.
Como mamá intento cubrir esa necesidad dandole amor, estando en sus actividades pero él ve a los otros papás y supongo que siente que le falta algo.
El papá de Cesar tampoco es que es muy amoroso, en el sentido que se hace sentir, que lo llama siempre, que esta para él.
Cada vez que llama le reclama cosas, no le dice cosas bonitas y su conversación es muy simple. Quizás si fuese más comunicatico.
Ellos no se conocen, no saben cual es el gusto de cada uno, no tienen afinidad. Simplemente se saludan y ya.
Yo siempre le busco el lado bueno y se lo hago saber a César. No le hablo mal, solo le explico lo que pasa con otras palabras.
En fin, ahora debo regresar al psicologo y ahí lo converso con su psicologa.
English
Children with abandonment, single mothers
Hello hello
I come to tell you about something that is happening to me with my son and that is something called "feeling abandoned." Have they lived it?
It's not something I haven't noticed, I just pay more attention to it now.
My son's father has been out of the country for 6 years, my son didn't pay attention to him or at least he didn't notice it. Now yes.
As a mother, it breaks my heart for not knowing how to choose a dad who is present, loving and aware that he must be close. Even though I asked for it. Maybe it's one of my frustrations with him.
Getting a person willing to be part of the family and give that love is not even remotely a solution, not everyone is willing.
I have noticed that when we go out he always approaches a father with his children, that is when it hurts me the most to see him and realize that he has that lack.
For those types of things, we must choose carefully who we choose as parents of our children. Not everyone is willing to be.
As a mother, I try to fulfill that need by giving him love, by being involved in his activities, but he sees the other parents and I guess he feels that something is missing.
Cesar's father is not very loving either, in the sense that he makes himself felt, that he always calls him, that he is there for him.
Every time he calls he demands things, he doesn't say nice things and his conversation is very simple. Maybe if he were more communicative.
They don't know each other, they don't know what each other's taste is, they have no affinity. They simply greet each other and that's it.
I always look for the good side and I let César know. I'm not talking bad to him, I'm just explaining what's happening in other words.
Anyway, now I have to go back to the psychologist and there I talk to his psychologist.
Soy Ana Fuentes💜💜
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