Again, they have been confronted with the fact, very young, that they are not in control of their lives, for no one would ever choose to lose their father in such a way. Humanly speaking, though, trusting a God who would take their father would also be very difficult ... and then to watch you move on, trust God, find love, and keep it moving says God can be trusted, but receiving that truth would require them to submit to His will, and that confess that He is right in whatever He does. This is not possible, humanly speaking ... but I will pray that the Spirit of God touch their hearts.