If you do not make time for yourself, you will never get that haircut. That is only friendly advice.
It is so sad to lose a kitty, I am sorry it happened but I know you do your best to keep them fed and cared for. I lost a baby bunny a few months ago, I know I did all I could do for it, and I have to accept that I did the best I could do.
Bon is still doing ok? If he is doing good, a follow-up appointment is nice to have but not as urgent as if he were still sick, so don't stress yourself over it.
The photo of Tres is funny. I wonder if she knows what we call it. I want to put eyes and a tail on your computer mouse.
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