hello Ladies and gentlemen of these prestigious community here on hive, I've observed certain things recently and I think it's something worth talking about cause I can't seem to analyse the reason why people will commit suicide to painfully cut themselves off the face of the earth
There's an adage in my mother tongue that says if there's life there's hope, what that literally means is that no matter what ever one encounters in life as far as one is ALIVE THERE IS HOPE, hope for the future, hope for possibilities, hope that things will turn out for the better
Going through the struggles of life can be so frustrating especially when you're struggling all alone, trying to make it through, no support system whatsoever, you seemed abandoned and trying so hard to make it through but all effort seems abortive
The next thing is hearing all those negative voices, not good enough, not okay, I mean look at everyone else doing okay, living the life of their dreams, and most times when you check this reality it seems so true like the odds are so against you but then.
You've got to KEEP HOPE ALIVE by all means, see I've been down a lot of time I have been depressed up-to the point I contemplate suicide, a lot of concrete raw evidence that I was nothing, I've cried many times night and day but then after all those depressed thoughts in my head somehow time will fade and just like magic I'll began to see those amazing things I'm good at, it's like a reawakening of the side of me I never knew existed, that's all the magic I need.
I'll tell you something, there's so much potential in every person, nobody I repeat no body in this life is less inferio every body was birthed with a unique ability in them to do exceedingly great things, but however to our environment, our upbringing, how we were raised, the circumstances and experiences that had shaped our lives all these amd more has counyedhow we see ourselves
See this analogy, if life had pushed you so bad to the wall, that wall now is like a balance, support system a back up for you to bounce on, get your stands and push back so hard, the resistance forces will give way, no matter what you're going through today, please look within you there's something in you that makes you stand out and different from everyone else.
A lot of time we quantify our source of happiness and joy from external things, it's can be your spouse, your job, your kids, your car, your company and all your achievements in life, and when there things are taken away from us, it look like the whole world just crashed on us.
Let your sources of true happiness come from your abilities, your prowess, that even if all these things are taken away from you in a matter of time you can replicate them, if you loose any of those it's not the end of your life, as far as you still got air in your lungs you can still do so much more & much better....
