I do not think anybody care's for privacy than I do, because in my life, I do not enjoyed staying in too much crowded and noisy places, the worst of it is, talking for a longer time.
I get comfortable with my phone than any other thing, I can be in the room for hours without wanting to see outside, unless, it is a very important activities that I needed to attend to, I love privacy but I do not allow it to get into my heads, when someone seek for my attention, and he want to talked to me, no matter how I must felt at that very moment, I will comport myself and be there for the person.
Listen to what he has to say and contribute in any way possible that I can, privacy doesn't means we closed the doors to our loves one's, because a world without our loves ones, would be an empty world.
There was a time I was at home, I didn't want anybody to come looking for me but I did not spelt it out, because if I did, it wouldn't make sense a bit, of me, informing everyone that no one should come looking for me that day, considering it a family house, we don't have to give a restriction to our family member's to that extents.
So, while I was in the room, my nephew and my niece came looking for me, those two can not be on their own without uncle, anytime they came visiting with their parents, I would have to get ready to tease them so much all the times, that's what they like.
So when I went to the room and wanted privacy, immediately I saw them coming and be calling me, I open the door and I let them in, it is family, for me, I do not draw privacy rules.
Yes!, privacy make us to give attention more to our innermost self relationship, because when people are talking to us, it can be so hard to have this quite reasoning, but we can only get it when the place is quiet and just us.
But in a rented apartment, I do not do the same, I set my clock and I give time's to things I do, I keep my privacy intact, because even privacy also help us to be more security conscious.
In the yard I stay, there was a time, someone came and looked for his friend but the person instead of reasoning with the visitor, he was just greetings him and did not give him time to explain what he came for, he just close his conversation with him and was angry that he came.
I was at the backyard with some friends, who came to pay me a visit, I didn't like his reactions towards his friend, but I didn't interfere because it was none of my business.
Yet, he later on shared his reason why he has to do that to his visitor, I came to understand that, he belief the visitor was peeking on his privacy, he has made it clear to him when he should come but he couldn't listened.
I know we all needs privacy but I didn't blame the visitors too, because the reason he insists coming even while he has inform him not to come see him might be of something so important, he should have listened to him, but he just takes everything on privacy, to me, privacy at times should be limited.
