An Iconic Break Up Replay - 𝑳𝒆𝒂𝒗𝒆 π‘΄π’š π‘³π’Šπ’‡π’† 𝑢𝒓 𝑳𝒐𝒔𝒆 𝒀𝒐𝒖𝒓 π‘³π’Šπ’‡π’†!

in Hive Learners β€’ 3 months ago

I've seen way too many ways people breakup with people especially love partners, sometimes you'll wonder if love was ever there in the first place with the way they go about the breakup scene. I've not had much breakup experience and I do not have any worse one because I know when a relationship is good for me or not and do not need any worse excuse to leave or stay.

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If I have to share one of the worse reasons people break up, I'll share a neighbour's story. Up till this day, that incident lives rent free in my head. I couldn't stop wondering about the kind of love they really had for each other before the unforgettable breakup day. The saying that "One should never go in between a couple fight to support one and badmouth the other, it may backfire"

I witnessed the backfire experience over and over with this two neighbours of mine back then until they finally broke up for real. Even in their break up days, we were expecting they will come back together so nobody dared to talk in favour of one or the other. One left but the other remained in the neighborhood until a few months and also moved out.

What happened? How did the breakup happen? What was the worse excuse?

Well, worse reason could also mean the cruelest reason and that is the case for this couple. They were all lovey dovey for months and I can remember some other neighbours gossip about them positively, like they were jealous of the couple's relationship. Well, the couple couldn't keep the perfect picture for long and it began to happen.

Before the breakup, the guy would always beat the lady and make her sleep outside the house as punishment for every mistake or wrong she did. At first, neighbors would go in to settle them and advice the man but it turned out it was a habit he was not ready to change from, they advice the lady to find someone else, she tagged them enemies.

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The neighborhood had to let them be and just watch from their windows until that day we last saw the lady πŸ˜‚ what happened?

It was the usual beating, the lady was crying so loud, all her body with painful marks and she was sitting on the floor outside the house. To everyone's surprise, this lady got up, went inside and came out with her luggages. Everyone was so sure the man would beg her back inside but then, she brought out a knife.

Quite a big knife she held and pointed it towards the man with only one sentence coming out from her mouth... "Leave my life or you die, I quit!" and the man got scared, begging her to calm down. She refused to be calm but instead tries to harm the man with the knife anytime he tries to go close to her and her things.

At this point, neighbours tried to get the knife from her and she began to wave the knife around with the aim of harming anyone who goes close to her. At last, she stabbed the man on his wrist and ran away with her things. The man was treated but never heard from her or know where she left off too. Nobody bothered to ask why he broke up with the lady, it was obvious.

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it is true that lovers can not be advised because they will end up putting one in the middle, anyone facing problems in their relationships don't need advice, they will eventually leave when they get tired of it.

Lol that's just it, no need giving too much advice especially when they are being adamant to it.

I don't even interfere when lovers have misunderstanding. Sometimes, we wonder how love so sweet turns sour. A lady should never stay in any relationship that a man raises his hand.

She definitely was tired. Glad the harm was not so severe. I don't also hear physical fights. I cannot explain tire πŸ˜‚

Lol same here o
Why risk putting myself into danger lol

Hmmm, that's a very sad ending because the guy is not a good person to stay with and she must have tried her best in the relationship.
I am even glad she went out of the relationship alive; some girl has died because of a toxic relationship.
So it is better to let it go; after all, a relationship is not a do-or-die thing.

Yeah, we were happy for her and it is rare to see ladies who leaves such relationships on their own.

Enough was really enough. I guess the guy didn't see the whole scene coming. But c'mon, they was a very toxic relationship – she could have died. Who knows, maybe she gave him second chances but he blew them off.

So glad she left the relationship. I can't even stay after the first hit 🀧

Lol same here o
I wonder how people try to understand a toxic relationship and not leave at first πŸ˜‚

Advising two lovers is difficult. They will count the adviser as enemy of progress. I'm sure it was too difficult for the woman to bear any more all the ill treatments and the only thing she felt was to retaliate. Thank God the man got a taste if his own medicine before the lady's departure. It's actually a hilarious experience. Hahaha.

Haha it was really funny until the man was screaming for help after the cut, good she decided to leave for progress.

Lol, i really don't know why adults behave like this... after maturing with the numbers on your years of age, touche though!!

Lol don't mind those set of people, it's annoying

I don't understand how people love toxicity so much. I mean, peace is an option, but they'll always choose toxicity and see the peace loving people (you and the other neighbours) as enemies of progress. Kai kai!.

God forbid that I have this type of neighbour. Oh, sorry. I think I did, but I never came out in all those beatings, because eventually, she was enjoying it. If not, she would've left.

Lol how can someone be enjoying beatings? It can never be me! πŸ˜‚

There was one babymama that was beaten to stupor in the rain. They were my neighbour. Despite the beatings and many court cases, she still was around, meaning she enjoyed the beatings. God forbid I get close to toxicity. God forbid!

That's really serious, some people think they have more than one life to live πŸ˜…

Maybe they do.