Well well, I'm not surprised that you like taking a route different from others and it's really daring of you.
Indeed you did take that unnecessary spending habit from Dad but I think everything has its own time and place when it would be appreciated. Unlike me that I can spend frugal and helps us save but having you who spend any time there is just this balance.
I hope one of your kids gets this traits though, hehe. But I pray that if possible sef you only have boys because it would be almost impossible that one of your girl child doesn't inherit that trait you got from mum.
I believe God knows best and that's what I wish for you 🥰