In this life every one has a likes and dislikes. We can't shy away from that. Some of those likes are what keeps us going and the dislikes also helps us to keep insisting on the right thing to be done.
Some of our likes comes from our upbringing. When we were kids we were told that one thing is good and another one is bad. This is where some of us formed our likes. Because we have known it for years it turned out to be what we love to do the most. Then where we have a very big problem is when others don't see things the way and manner we see it. We seems to have problem with that. The truth is that every one will not have the same likes and dislikes. What makes you happy maybe what makes another person sad. All of these boils down to our upbringing. The environment where we came from.
Take for instant someone who grew up in a northern part of his country and comes in contact with someone who grew up in the eastern part of his country, they will all love separate things. That is just because they had different environment, different norms, different parents and so on. So today what I will be sharing as my like and dislike may not be the same as yours. But my opinions matters to me alot. Hahaha 😂
Let me start from my dislikes. I will be sharing with the house the three major things that I hate so much with passion.
- Insincere human being. I have stayed with people alot. Both the good and the bad ones. For me I think that the best gift a person can give to me is SINCERITY. Just be sincere, that is all I need from any body close to me. I don't want you to pretend to be anything that you are not. Be your self. I don't like been around individuals who try so much to cover up their life styles. It will do you no good to try to be someone else. Say it the way it is.
- I hate corruption. In Nigeria, corruption has eaten us too deep that we hardly think right. Both the leaders and the citizens. We have all adapted the life of corruption. Why I say so is because everyone is involved now. Not just the leaders, but we ourselves are victims. We need God to help us and pull us out of the mess we have put ourselves into.
- I hate unfriendly people. Hahaha 😂. This one is very funny. I don't know why, but I prefer to stay close to someone who is friendly to someone who is not friendly. Maybe because I am too friendly. I love making friends wherever I go to. If you don't like people around you, then you will not like me. If I meet someone just today, I will love to know that person enough to trust that person. So that is why I love to make friends. Not just any how friends, but friends that will be friendly as well. I love talking to people. I Love watching movies with people. I love saying my mind when I am with people. I just love it when I am able to display myself. I can't hide anything. In fact that was one of the character that my mother in-law loves about me the very first day she saw me. When I came into the family I started greeting and talking to the people that I saw around me. Just in two days one of my sister in-law became my friend. Everyone was surprised. I don't hide anything. If you like me fine, if you don't like me that is your own business.
In conclusion, I love been myself. No pretence. No hide and sick game. I am just who I am and nothing more, nothing less.
This is my response to the hive learners community contest for week 119, edition 1.
JUST THREE THINGS.
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