FRIENDSHIP COMES WITH A PRICE TO BE PAID

in Hive Learners5 months ago

I guess that the house is going to be discussing about me today. Because if there is anyone who makes friends easily is me. If you are not my friend then I don't want you around me, but if you are the type of person that I love and want to be around, you have no option than to be with me. Yes it works for me like magic.

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Sometimes I wonder why is very difficult for people to make friends. I know also that there are some people who are like me. They make friends easily just like myself. And this is the very life that gives me joy. I love playing around with people.

This started since I was a little girl. My elder sisters hardly associate with people around them. The worse of them all is my direct elder sister. She can't even laugh when she is with people. That makes her very unfriendly. I hear people complain about her especially and she don't even care. If you like be happy with what she is doing if you like don't be happy, that is your business. But when I came into the picture everything changed. If I enter any family I am coming out with many friends from there. If people don't see me for some days they don't get the happiness that they should get. Why? Because I am a bundle of happiness. If you see me from afar you must start smile
Hahaha 😂. I know that I have made you smile too. As a little girl I had so many nick names Because anywhere I enter I must do something that will make people give me a special name. I know you are already wishing that I tell you one of those names. Hahaha 😂. Not today. Maybe some other time.

Another reason for my kind of person is because of my husband I think. He no send ohh. He can just walk pass tem people without greeting or even responding to their greetings. Is this bad. I have tried to change that character in him, but he can't just change completely. I know that sometimes he tries to please me by greeting people when we walk together, but it doesn't last. Because that nature is not just in him. But for me ohh I greet everything that I see that looks like a human being on the way. Even little children , when I walk pass them without greeting I feel sad. So, this character has made me have more friends that I can ever ask for.

Well, some of those friends may not really be close friends or good ones. All I know is that I make friends easily but I am wise when it comes to dealing with them. I only have two close friends that I know that can watch my back and I also watch theirs. But when it comes to ten rest, we are just casual friends. Sometimes because of them I can enter into places that others may not have access to.
This post was inspired by the hive learners community contest for week 101, edition 1.

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The humour in your posts proves that you would be fun to be with. Keep making people happy.

Thanks darling 💕

To those that are unfriendly, I believe it's not their fault too. Most people just find it difficult to make friends, you must be an extrovert that is why it's easy for you to make friends.