Life doesn’t stop with a diagnosis - how to accept Chronic Illness

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Are you living with a chronic illness and wondering how to make peace with it? You’re not alone, and your feelings are valid. Learning to live with a diagnosis that doesn’t go away can be one of life’s toughest challenges. But even with this new reality, life can still be meaningful, joyful, and beautiful.

Hearing the words “chronic illness” can feel like your world is crumbling. At first, many people experience denial, thinking, “This can’t be happening to me.” Others may feel fear, sadness, or anger. These emotions are natural. Take your time to process the news. Let yourself feel, cry if you need to, and talk to someone you trust.

Acceptance doesn’t mean giving up hope. It’s about acknowledging your reality and finding ways to live with your illness, not fight against it.

Chronic illnesses often require a lifelong partnership with your health. This may mean medications, lifestyle changes, or regular doctor visits. It’s a lot to take in. But here’s a positive thought, medical science has come a long way. Many conditions that were once untreatable can now be managed or put into remission.

Learn about your illness. The more you know, the more control you’ll feel. Ask questions, research reliable sources, and work closely with your doctor. Knowledge helps you make informed decisions and face your illness with confidence.

Life will change, but it’s not over. You may need to adapt routines or give up certain habits, but these adjustments can also bring new opportunities. Many people discover hobbies they never had time for before or form deeper connections with others by sharing their journey.

Focus on what you can do, not what you’ve lost. Maybe you can’t run marathons anymore, but you can still take peaceful walks in nature, enjoy painting, or spend quality time with loved ones.

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You’re not alone in this fight. Millions of people live with chronic illnesses, and many share similar struggles. Reach out to support groups or online communities. Sometimes, just talking to someone who understands can ease the burden.

Lean on your loved ones, too. Let them know how they can help, whether it’s listening to your worries or assisting with daily tasks. Accepting support is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Your body is your partner, and taking care of it is essential. Small, consistent steps can make a big difference!

Eat nourishing foods and your body the fuel it needs to heal and function.

Move gently! Physical activity, even light stretches, can improve your mood and energy.

Rest deeply! Listen to your body and don’t feel guilty about taking breaks.

Calm your mind! Practices like meditation, breathing exercises, or journaling can help reduce stress and bring clarity.

Living with a chronic illness often means worrying about the future or mourning the past. But life happens now, in the little moments, a warm hug, a funny story, the beauty of a sunset. Treasure these small joys, they are the building blocks of happiness.

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A chronic illness may alter your life’s path, but it doesn’t erase your dreams. You can still set goals, whether they’re big or small. Maybe you’ll learn a new skill, travel to a place you’ve always wanted to see, or simply spend more time with loved ones.

Even setbacks can teach us resilience. Each step forward, no matter how tiny, is proof of your strength.

Every day, take a moment to find something you’re grateful for. Gratitude shifts your focus from what’s missing to what you have. It could be as simple as a sunny day, a kind word, or a good meal.

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You are not alone!!

Living with a chronic illness is hard, but it’s not the end. It’s a new beginning,a chance to grow, adapt, and find beauty in life’s imperfections. Surround yourself with love, embrace the journey, and remember, there’s a community of people just like you, cheering you on.

You are strong. You are capable. And you are never alone!!

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“Fear starts in your mind. Courage as well.”– Unknown

With love, @tinabrezpike ❤️

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Its not easy living with chronic illness and many people cant appreciate it until you experience it. It may be a struggle but hopefully there are some bright spots and they can make a new beginning.


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Thank you! I have to admit, I didn’t truly understand what it means to have a chronic illness until I received my own diagnosis. I’ve learned a lot, and I’m still learning. Taking advice from others has also made my life a little easier, so maybe my advice can help someone else too. Like I wrote... we are not alone...there are many of us fighting.

Yes, I treasure now at least those sometimes short moments of inner peace at least. I wish you lots of strength and all the best with your illness.

That is a wonderful post and well written - full of inspiration 🤗

The most interesting thing for me, is most humans don't recognize that "Life is a Terminal Illness"... and it is only until we receive a diagnosis of "Chronic Illness" or "Terminal Illness" that it is thrust into the forefront of out minds.

Confronting mortality, especially when there is pain, fatigue, loss of abilities - can be extremely challenging for many people.

One of the best things I read was "you are not alone" - yet so often we tell ourselves that we are and trap ourselves within the solitary confinement of our minds with the shackles of "why did this happen to me" imprisoning us and the thoughts of "no one will understand what I am going through" silencing us...

When in reality - it is just as you said... many people are going through similar situations and if only we reach out... we could see are not alone... learn new ways to comfort each other and improve out situations... and most all, seeing we aren't the only person dealing with our issue... that should give us hope.

Thank you for sharing!!!!!

Oh wow, thank you so much for this ❤️. You’re absolutely right…I used to feel like nobody would understand what I was going through, so I didn’t tell anyone. But keeping everything to myself just pushed me back into my shell, leaving me depressed and sad.
Eventually, I found support groups with people going through similar situations, and sharing our stories made me so much stronger. Hearing about what others are facing and learning from their experiences gave me the strength I needed. I spent years looking for someone who has both Crohn’s disease and epilepsy, and after five years, I finally found someone. Being able to talk to someone who truly understands what it’s like to navigate these two conditions together has been life-changing. She gave me so many ideas and pieces of advice, and I will always be grateful to her. That’s why I share my stories, and I will continue to do so in the future. I know I still have so much to learn…we all do, especially when it comes to finding peace and balance in life. I’m not completely there yet, but as I said, we are not alone. :)Thank you so much for stopping by ❤️

My pleasure - I appreciate you sharing!

Both of those individually are tough to deal with and together they must be a Tag Team from Hades.

While I didn't deal with the same issues, I found when my life suddenly went in a very different direction finding people to talk with about it was like a life raft.

They offered perspective and it was the first time I realized "Hey wait... others have gone through this... oh no!!! Others might be going through this!!"

So I started sharing my ordeals - and just like you, not only did it help me by releasing it instead of keeping it confined... the more I shared my trials... the more people reached out publicly and privately to say "Oh my God, thank you - I am going through something and your story helped me".

That's what I love about your post - sharing my trials, helped others through theirs and that has helped so much with finding the balance and peace you speak of :)

Have a blessed day!

Apparently, sharing is caring. 😊 And regardless of how long it takes to find this balance, you will definitely find it. It's just hard for me to see people fighting within themselves and not wanting to accept help. Many of them think they can do it on their own, and maybe some can, but sometimes it's just impossible to crawl out of the darkness without the help of others. But all of my friends know that they can always come to me, and I also have friends who will always listen when I'm struggling. And now I've found so many people here on Hive with great advices they share. Have a wonderful day! I hope you're enjoying better weather than we are. 😉

I have a chronic condition that affects most organs of the body, and causes complications, it's been like that for 32 years and I was born with it. However, it hurts sometimes and you're drained, but I've found solace in God.

That’s why I feel the need to share such stories with others…you never know whose life your story might help. I’m so sorry that you had to go through that, but I’m glad you’ve found peace through religion. Each of us finds comfort in different ways. For me, I find peace in meditation, and when I’m feeling really down, I put on my headphones, listen to classical music, and practice breathing exercises.
I completely understand when the pain feels unbearable. Sometimes, even when we take pills, the pain doesn’t go away. But there’s one sentence my husband told me that stays in my mind… 'Those of us with health problems are strong enough to handle them, and we see the world through different eyes.'
So, please remember, you’re not alone. Sharing your frustration and pain with others helps so much, never hide your pain!

It's really hard but it's true I'm fighting too with a chronic illness but I still haven't accept it . 🥲

Can I ask what kind of chronic illness you have? It took me a long time to accept that my body is not like everyone else’s, and even now, there are times when I break down and cry. That’s why, when I’m feeling low, I often write and pour everything out onto paper…it helps so much.
I share my stories with you all because I know there are many people out there searching for someone they can relate to. You know what I did once, based on advice from a friend? I went for a walk, and when no one was around, I screamed and cried. That helped me, too.
We all have our own ways of coping, but please remember, you’re not alone. If you ever need help, I’m here!

Thank you very much for this beautifully written reassuring post, I'm sure a lot of people would find it apt.

You never know how many people can relate, and that’s why I’m sharing this…Thank you for stopping by ❤️

This is a very positive and encouraging post for those people who are reluctant to accept a necessary and urgent life change.
Even for those of us who do not have a chronic illness it sounds so beautiful and inspiring that it serves us for endless stages of life , or atypical situations that we have to live.

You are a very positive, lucid and beautiful person.
cheers princess!

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Thank you so much for those kind words ❤️ I know there are so many people out there who don’t share their struggles and keep the pain inside. I used to be like that too, but then I decided that maybe sharing my struggles with others could help me and remind people that they are not alone. Writing really helps! ❤️

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Thank you! :) Oh, it will definitely be a lovely weekend. I don’t have to work, so I’ll have some free time to read a few books. I wish you a wonderful weekend too!

You are more than welcome 🤗 no work more free time I hope you enjoy your books 📚📚

My weekend it's all good so far 🤝🏾

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I finished my book yesterday, and if I start reading my second book today, I’m not sure who’s going to be cooking! 😂 Yes, I noticed that almost every one of your posts gets downvoted, but I don’t understand why. Just because you helped someone? That makes no sense to me. and I know your articles are good and are original...
I also receive downvotes sometimes, and I’m still not sure why. It’s strange that meaningful content gets downvoted, while posts that aren’t written in proper English or don’t make much sense still get so many upvotes. But who am I to say what’s right or wrong?
I keep writing because I love sharing my stories, and regardless of the downvotes, I’ll keep writing. I don’t care about them.Wishing you a beautiful Sunday! I hope you have sunshine, too. Two days ago, there was snow here, and now it’s so warm that I can sit outside! 😂

I do love a good book but it's so hard to find the time theses days the work never stops we didn't cook yesterday we had food out.

All my post's get downvoted before payout it doesn't bother me I just want everyone to know what is going on did you know Hive is under surveillance big investigation is going on

It's so stupid really when the people who downvote my original work are liking spam basically 🤔

I just don't understand why Blocktrades is delegating to Buildawhale 🤔

If I didn't enjoy what I do I would have just left

We had a lovely Sunday it was cold 🥶 but it was all good we had fun 😊

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I finished two books this weekend, so yeah 💪😂. I'm not capable of doing anything else because my hand still hurts from the fall, and working last week made it worse 🤦‍♀️. I'm not sure why I’m work today 😂. Oh, I don't know what's going on behind the Hive…I've never been interested in technical stuff🤔.I'm here only for writing, reading, and meeting other people. :)) I've already found so many interesting people, and that's what's important to me :). Of course, we don't all have the same taste, which is probably why downvotes happen, but that's just me guessing :)

You must have had a whole lot of spare time to finish two books 📚

I hope your hand gets better soon 🙏🏾

If you use Hive then you should learn a bit more about what's going on behind the scenes

As I said my content is being downvoted on Hive just because I helped out a friend year's ago who is now exposing the truth about Hive

The funniest part is that those who are doing the downvoting are scamming and farming Hive all the evidence is out there

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I hope you enjoy your day ahead ✌🏾

I can read a 400-page book in one day. 😉 I've always loved reading, so once I start, I need to finish or I have a hard time sleeping. 😄 Unfortunately, my arm won’t get better for a while because I have a torn muscle, but with physiotherapy, it’ll improve. As long as I can work, everything is fine. 😊It’s not that I don’t pay attention to what’s happening behind the scenes, but I prefer not to delve into matters that don’t directly involve me. That’s what I have my husband for. 😄 Like I said, I’m here for writing. I’m just a little bookworm, not very interested in drama 😉 But I know it’s time for me to start learning!
Still, nothing will change my love for Hive...I haven’t found a better platform for sharing my stories.

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