around 3 weeks ago, my wife realize that her period was late around a week, and ask me to get a test pack. I bought 2 different test pack for more accurate result, and found out that both of them are shown a positive indication of pregnancy

Few days later, we decide to go to the doctor and ask for USG to makes sure it's really a pregnancy, and yes, the Doctor says my wife is pregnant, and it's been around 5 weeks !

We Are Not Plan It

Well, my wife is actually don't want to have more children, because she often feel exhausted take care both of my son. We try to get a preventive but not find a suitable one. Some permanent way need a lot of money, and we ended up just doing it manually, just split it outside the body~. But yeah, it's the most ineffective way, because sometimes, it's just too hot to handle 😅

How We Handle The Situation

First and the most importantly is my wife's mental, because she had some issues after our second child was born, but for this pregnancy, eventough she doesn't want it, she accept the fact and want to take care of the baby. But she doesn't want to push herself too much to reduce the stress from the tired body and mentally, so I ended up take care for most of the housework, because the symtom for the first trimester makes her wanna rest all the time.
Financial is something that little bit mess, because we still have difficult to arrange our monthly cost even before my wife is pregnant, and now we need extra money for the doctor visit and the vitamin. Our monthly cost going up even more because my wife want to have a pet, and we decide to adopt 2 pet (one was before my wife pregnant), we ended up using our saving little by little. There is issue about my wage will increase next year, and I hope it's true, because if not, than I need to find another way to get extra money, at least for the birth preparation. I might have to do some power down again (I hope not).

My Wife Want Sterilization After Giving Birth

She accept this pregnancy but already make a decision for sterilization, because she think it would be the best, since she got a problem for handling too many children. She also want to stop the pregnancy cycle, and want to start enjoy her life more. The doctor actually not recommend it, but after my wife talk about how mess she was after our 2nd child was born, the doctor agree and say she can have the sterilization right after giving birth. We actually talk about it with the other doctor when we do another visit (because now we move back to our house after spending 2 month on my mother in law house, but the other doctor refuse it and say it's normal to stress after the birth, etc. Now my wife don't want to consul with that doctor anymore (she was actually the doctor that we have a routine control and handle the birth for our 2nd child).
I actually a bit confuse, because I think about her future, about how she could be if I have passed away early, she might want to marry other man and have a child with him, but my wife insist she doesn't want to marry other man and don't want to have any child, so yeah, I think the plan for sterilization will happen.
At the very end, it's her body, and she is the one that really know about her condition, physically and mentally, my job is to support her.

Final Words

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