When you're at work, negative input means unhappiness, sadness, or criticism about your performance or behavior.
Since we usually put a lot of effort into our jobs and must make a good impression, hearing lousy feedback can be upsetting.
It always feels better to get good feedback. It does stink all the time; that much is true. People can quickly become defensive or try to feel embarrassed, shut down, or cry about it, which is perfectly fine!
The point of constructive feedback is to help us grow and move forward, even if it hurts, and it doesn't matter who is giving it.
Let yourself feel whatever comes up when you get not-so-nice feedback. Then, it would help if you started planning your growth. You can do this!
Here are some familiar places where bad feedback comes from:
People who work for administrators or managers criticize you based on things like how well you do your job, how well you meet their expectations, or how well you follow the organization's plan.
Your coworkers or direct reports could criticize things like how you lead others, how you act at work, how you talk to people at work, or how well you can work with others.
Customers' feedback can help you determine what parts of your product, services, communication, or work style need improvement.
Potential buyers could criticize things like how you write, how well it works, or how useful it is.
Occasionally, negative feedback comes from professional channels like performance reviews. It could also be that your boss tells you about it in private, either in person or by email.
Here are some examples of harsh criticism:
Your writing style in groups will usually take over the conversation, making it hard for others to say what they think.
There were some fundamental mistakes in the new report you turned in, and it had nothing to do with what the client wanted.
You have missed many project due dates, which has slowed down the group's progress overall.
Your partners have told you that you often make decisions without consulting or enlightening them about group projects you should work on together.
Many of your clients have said that your tone was harsh and that your way could be better.
Your slides had many writing and grammar mistakes, which took away from how great the show was.
As the group leader, your instructions and emails could be more precise, and your coworkers have told you that they need clarification about their jobs and what is expected of them.
When problems arise, your way of critical thinking is often to look for someone else to blame instead of working with others to find solutions.
There have been accounts of rude things you said at client meetings, which is not an excellent way to introduce our company.
We do not like to hear negative feedback. Some things that can help you get it and talk to it are listed below:
First, take a few deep breaths. It will take a few seconds for you to concentrate.
Please pay close attention to the person and listen carefully to what they are saying.
It may be natural to strike out or defend yourself, but staying as professional as possible is essential.
Should the person be giving you helpful, valuable feedback, it is essential to say thank you. Saying "thank you" for feedback shows you can take it and move on.
You take a few moments to think about the feedback and express your emotions. Talk to a friend or family outside of work if you're upset.
No matter what you do, don't let bad feedback destroy your confidence. Doing everything right all the time takes work to do consistently. Whatever went wrong won't define you forever if you think about what happened and use what you've learned to help yourself.
Make it evident that you wish to go to the next level. Describe the measures you took on your end to resolve the issue. Find out if the things you've done have changed them.
Take a moment to recognize and praise your progress along the way. Think about the good things that have happened because of your work.
Doing everything right always takes a lot of work to do consistently. Anything wrong will only define you for a while as long as you use the information in a way that helps you.
We all get lousy feedback occasionally, and even though it's discouraging, it will help us grow. If it makes you sad or hurts you, let yourself feel those things and talk about them with someone you trust.
After that, you can start doing anything necessary to become an amazingly better version of yourself.
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