There are a lot of things that gives people true happinesses but my usual come from
my friends used to give me true happiness: warmth, love, laughter, memories. All that changed over the years: I slowly drifted apart from my friends, and the joy I had about being with them started to vanish.
For me, it matters to seek for such happiness because it’s the one that makes life worth living. I know, without this final state where everything becomes meaningful, I will be hopeless, purposeless, and inactive. The true happiness renders contentment, calmness, and thankfulness which are very useful for the general state of health and mental wellbeing. It helps me live in the moment, enjoy the people and things I have in my life and rejoice over the small things.
I have understood however, that even as my friends have enjoyed a big part of my happiness, it is also important to look for happiness in oneself. This can mean getting new hobbies, new people, new targets, new care practices and new uplifting tunes. As a result of this personal development process, I see the worth of the relationships I used to cling to even when they ceased being enjoyable.
Happiness is one of the most precious and important feelings of life, which I aim to achieve. My friends have contributed a great deal of happiness over the years, but I understand that the time has come to look for pleasure in myself and in other places. It’s a long and painful process I suppose, but I consider that it is important, if not essential, to put my happiness first in order to make sense of everything in life and enjoy every aspect of it.
