Each and everyday, people offend us and we as well, we offend people unknowing, then failure to say sorry, would make us have a remorseful moment, that is, if the person is a type that think about an event that occur.
If I have wrong a person, I quickly apologize, I am too emotional that's how I see myself and in such moments, I will have to think about it over time, and my heart would be racing, trying to judge me to see if I did the right thing.
Knowing the right thing to do is why I can't go away if I know that I have wrong a person, because, it wouldn't just be about me leaving that scene, but the questions is, "would I be able to let go of my hunches, knowing that I did something wrong and I didn't stands to apologize" I see life to be something simple, if we can just do whatever things we finds is right.
When I was in school, I hardly go into the exams hall with a piece of paper or any extra materials, the reason why I couldn't do such a thing was just because I couldn't stand it, the first day I tried it my heart didn't let me be, I think about it for long, since that day, I hardly do it because I know it was wrong and I was not able to have peace of mind after it, most of my course mate do it and assist their brains in the exams hall, they call it, brain supporter.
But I could not do it after I felt tormented in my first attempt, I was always writing on the questions I know and I would leave the questions I could not answer, knowing quite alright that I did test and assignment in the course, then when the both score are being added with the exams score, definitely I will have a pass mark, I always had this idea of not graduating as the best student, I wanted to be true with my self and know to what extent I am good academically.
Since I hardly go into the exams hall with a piece of paper and I was writing on my own, there were advantage to it, as we know, everything a person do in life has the good and the bad, then the good part was that, I find myself growing courageously in term's of exam's and I was believing in myself at any point in time.
A lot of my course mates used to complaints of the atmosphere when it comes to the exam's time, but I was always taking it as a normal lecturer's times that we used to had with the course lecturers.
Thereafter, when results got pasted, it wasn't that I failed any course, i failed nothing but the differences was in my score, some students score more than me, I didn't had the best score, but I was ahead of some people and never a time did I want to be the best students than anybody, I do the way I did because it was giving me peaceful reasoning, I like it when my heart is so free and nothing to worry about.
Each time we do hear of people doing unethical behavior in the society, why they do that thing is because, they do not spelt the activities wrongly and their feelings do not judge them about it, some people lived their life just as it pleases them, and they called it, "I don't care kind of life" then you will still see them happy and not bother about it.
Since they don't know what they are doing is wrong, they still have peace within themselves and lived their life's happily.
It is very hard for a person who has known the right and wrong to be in peace with his heart when he has offend, it is only apologize that can grant the person peace.
Someone once said that, if he offended a person, what he do is to apologize and once he has done that, it doesn't matter to him anymore if the person accept the apology or not. He was right, because for you to have peace of mind, you must first of all make peace with yourself.
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