I am born into a family that had gone through life, whatever we are today, in the family, society and own in the minds of people, is not a magic by parents tolled that part for us. My siblings and I have never taken it for granted and would never.
Because we know of such importance in our life and in the life of our children, which is my parent's grand children that nothing came like manner, someone made it available.
Of which many children today our also lucky to be in position like this, but why I can discuss this topic freely and categorically is just that my siblings and I were exposed to this. Our parents, the family struggles, passion, and energy to which they pulled to make all of these things available for us.
My parents didn't hide anything from us for too long, as memorable as I can recall. From 10 of age, my and didn't affect us negatively, even though my day had businesses and my mom too had businesses.
We were keyed into the struggle line, though I thought at that age, too, that I and my young siblings. But they were older than me with two and four years that we were too teen at the time to be exposed to the family struggle.
My elder brother was 14 years my immediate brother was 12, and I was 10 in a family of five which our elders' sister was the oldest 16 years with a pretty younger sister of 9 years.
At this age bracket of ours, we were already seeing and introduced properly by my parents the family struggle line. To me after so many years, which I think my siblings too would be thinking this way now, that it taught us how to see life differently.
Like, how we view wealth, heritage, and value for one another, even when we want to use those already made wealth of our parents. Too many children, today, didn't have the opportunity to learn this from their parents.
Simply because their parents would like to hide something from them, so parents feel it would affect the kids mentally. But I feel it is proper to let your children from early age from the age bracket we were to start having a full-blown knowledge of the family struggle.
Reason being that it has a way of inculcating, the children approach of wealth management and materialistic lifestyles. I am setting examples with my family and the kind of life I and my siblings are living now.
Not as if we are perfect people, but these conscious that people made this available and that we need to value it and make our own names just like our parents have done. It is also one beautiful thing, even when the will was read because my dad read his will now that thy are still alive.
He said, we would want to see how you children would manage everything as they are getting older. So we understand the pains because we were a part of the pain, by so doing no of these things had been taken for granted.
You some children grow up to meet situations like this, and they misuse it, they don't add value to what they are given inherited from the struggle their parents laid down. Simply because they didn't go through the family struggle with their parents.
They waste it, live the kind of life that nature would regret of them, make the people around them so uncomfortable, look down on people, and speak to people manner less in the society.
Thinking that the less privilege our the worst people on earth. All because they don't know what struggle is all about. They don't size themselves in the shoes of the less privilege once. Who even had been exposed to family struggles.
Not as if, one would totally say that exposure of this kind would make the children perfect children, but there is at least 75% self consciousness this would yell in the life of the kids.
More especially now that children even claim to know more than their parents. Before, children listen to parents, but now, parents listen to their children.
And you see some of these kids grow up to become issues and problems to themselves.
But if children are exposed to their family struggles from the age my parents started, it would be better for the parents and these kids too. I am supporting children early exposure, it is not as if you are punishing them; the Jan z generation needs this.
As parents keep on hiding these things, the kids would think it is a crime to feel what their parents are feedings. One would say at that age? See if parents do not engage their minds with important things like this, trust me, they use that Same minds to be nursing erotica feelings.
If they can bear the emotional and the claimed psychological heavy on matters of that feelings, tell you these kids would bear the family own too, it is not a punishment at all.
When they have this knowledge, maybe watch you go through it, and have a way of being a part of it. You see they, most often, begin to think like an adult.
A person who has gone through or who have knowledge, of an illness would best explain it, to someone who doesn't. In a case like this, experience is the best way to go about it.
I am saying this because of the time that we are, the generation we are, determines how you make a shift from one way or the other. It even then that parents were supposed to keep family struggles away from their children.
But many of them did, and if you carefully examine most of these kids, then and now, one would agree with me that the ways of maturity most of them values differs.
Now that the world is competitive, parents should help build a better feature, and invest maturity in their kid's life early enough. The more parents keep hiding these things, the more we hold unto the wrong feature and prospective for these kids.
In fact, some parents think that by keeping the family struggles away from their children, let me not so often say kids, that they are doing their children any right. Yes, at the moment of doing that, it looks gloomy, sweet, and pampering.
A parent who carefully examines how the trend and z is trending, and have the intention to see the world still maintain sanity would, note the importance of letting them see what family struggles us all about.
It is like we would soon get to a generation who isn't concerned about other people's feelings, emotions, very soon. The way some parents hid truth from their parents is going to end the society in a terrible state in time to come.
If you are a business family, and academic person prospective family as well, induct them in early so that they will have the feeling, the world, of base in equal life and intimidation is fast coming.
So if the children understand, that life is a struggle, that nothing comes, so easy and that some of these who do not have liked them as the case maybe, didn't plan to end that way. You see we begin to have maturity and even in the internal family children would grow up and respect others.
Having known that like is just a scale, nothing is absolutely free and nothing is too expensive to in the earthly matters. They would even protect what you have laid down for them, and make sure they pass it to their children, and in safe hands and manners too.
The worst thing is to labor for your children and while you're no more, as death is inevitable, those family struggles your parents exposed you to, that shaped your life is being misuse my generation.
Think deeply about this in this direction, and you would see it is right, you exposed your children, of this generation, to early family struggle exposure
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