She really loved me because I would always wear a big skirt and blouse, and she complimented me always.

Hahaha 😀
This is why I always return to the Bible to know what it says rather than focusing on what people say. This doesn't mean they aren't right, most times, you need to be closer to God through the word to understand what you need to know. I've also learnt from the Bible that our heart and faith matter more than these physical things. May God help us.