I couldn't help but laugh at the irony of considering oneself "single" even while being married, just because your partner is absent or not involved in decision-making.

But seriously, you've made some great points about the benefits of singleness. Being emotionally independent, focusing on career growth, and having the freedom to socialize all at once.

However, let's not forget that being in a relationship also has its benefits, like sharing ideas, creating memories, and building a family together. It's like leveling up in the game of life where you gain a partner-in-crime to navigate the ups and downs with.

In the end, whether singleness is a "gift" or not depends on the individual's perspective and circumstances. It's important to embrace and make the most of whatever stage of life we're in, whether single or in a relationship. After all, life is too short to worry about labels.