Summer Reflection #41: Unclosed

in Reflections3 months ago

Running some errands today meant dropping my wife to work at a little after eight in the morning, which isn't that early, but also, nothing is really open. I drove out to a shopping center to while away the time, and perhaps write, and that is where I find myself now. But even the café didn't open until nine so I wandered around the center, with barely anyone around, thinking how weird it seems. There were a few workers getting their store displays ready with their gates partially up, though for the most part, the stores were shuttered.

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It reminded me of when I used to work in a shopping center over twenty five years ago, and would open up a music store, and we would open an hour before all the other stores in the center, because while there were almost zero walkthrough customers, there were a lot of employees, looking for something to do. So they would come in, browse the discs, listen to something, and often buy.

But it wasn't the sales that was the main reason, it was that when they would come in they would have a chat, talk about the music they were looking for, their day ahead and just hang out with us a little, while we were filling and neatening shelves. It was the social interaction that they were looking for and it became a morning hub, with people often dropping in with their morning coffee to start their day. The sales during this period were generally low, and it probably wasn't enough profit to cover salaries for the hour, but it also probably encouraged future sales too, as people tend to buy from where they feel comfortable and know people.

It is funny that this memory came to mind, because I haven't thought much about those times for years. I don't know if I have been lucky or not in workplaces, but for the most part, I have enjoyed working with most of my colleagues. While I didn't always get along with all of them, I would say ninety percent of them were pretty decent people, no matter how crappy the job might have been.

I think that this is what most people are like in the world, where on average, people are just trying to have a decent experience in their life, where they can feel safe, have some social connection, and enjoy themselves. It is the other ten percent of us that are continually looking to maximize personal gain by minimizing the opportunity of others. This probably happens through every nation, every culture, every religion.

Maybe one day, the ninety percent will realize that the social connection they benefit from, is far more valuable and powerful than the economic gain that drives our society. Profit needn't be a dirty word, because it can be generated in many different ways. There are ways to make a bit of money through activities that add social value also, but this way can never maximize the money to be made for an individual, because it will lead to greater distribution, not greater concentration of resources.

There has been a big change in retail over the last years, with far more people going online to the point that many of the young don't want to talk to anyone at all. However, while this isolation will maximize the profits for the corporations, the cost will be passed on to us, as the lack of social connection erodes who we are, and our quality of life experience, as doors of all kinds will start to close, and not reopen.

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I hated working retail. I think mostly because people are morons and they always let you down. Actually, that's probably not the real reason, but it was still kind of horrible. We were in a strip mall so we didn't get many shoppers. It was definitely one of those places were people liked to come in and talk though. Sadly, that was never one of my strong points!

I think customers in Australia and the US "were" different back then. Perhaps part of it is that you have a culture that works for tips (in some industries), Australia doesn't. I think that changes customer behavior overall.

I wish that was the case here. I am suffering tip fatigue bad. Our issue had to do with not being in a mall. People were just walking around looking to spend money. They were coming in to get a specific part and then leaving. They didn't want to be up sold or offered anything beyond that.

tip fatigue - That is likely something that can be officially diagnosed these days!

It's robbery!

Your story about working at the music store really captures the essence of human connection and how people came together not just for the products, but for the conversations and sense of community. I really miss those old days and going to the music stores to listen to the latest CDs. Life has changed a lot with internet and social media.

I miss listening to albums. These days, it is mostly about individual songs, so there aren't many great albums anymore. People used to listen to the same CD hundreds of times, it became personal, part of us. Now, it is mostly throwaway trash.

I got into vinyl about 2 years ago and rediscovered listening to whole albums. Damn it feels good.

That is awesome!

I always say that however much the job we do is crappy, we would be happy at the workplace if working with decent people.

For sure. Decent people make crappy work bearable.

Many people don't remember or keep the old past but don't want to talk about it. It is very good that you can say. Earning money is the main thing, just we should not do injustice and dishonesty.

The problem with earning money is that doing it in the economy we have, will largely lead to bad outcomes in the future.

I can imagine how fun that workplace will be. It’s not just about working or earning money. It’s about the environment of the workplace too. It is conducive and so many thoughts that comes to the head

What has your work been like?

It’s a schooling job

This reminded me of a drink CEO's interview, on how they were able to keep their prices the same for a very long time. He just said they were in profit, without debt, their employees are happy, and people continue to buy their product. I think as long as they're green after deducting all expenses, they are happy.

The economy has an issue because profit-seeking is essentially taking resources out of the system, and putting them into non-value-adding wealth generation vehicles. It is very, very leaky.

Nice to see that you are reliving time and expressing to us, what it meant for you when you were selling music. Yes, it is all about connection and less about the economical gain. That is something that’s going to be missing in the future and it hits hard you are right about how the recent generation has become antisocial, wanting your own space and missing out on social connections like this.

Antisocial behavior, leads to society failing, and quality communities not forming. People don't yet know how bad that is going to be for themselves too.

Being at certain places at certain times often just triggers some memories we thought we had forgotten. Nice read.

Thank you very much for your reflections.
I'll take this one and highlight it:

"...Maybe one day, the ninety percent will realize that the social connection they benefit from, is far more valuable and powerful than the economic gain that drives our society."

Greetings from Venezuela @tarazkp

Hello. Good evening
I learned that @galenkp is your brother. He has been downvoting all my articles for weeks now
I made a comment under his post to ask if I did anything wrong but I got no response
I’ve done that for about three times
Please, I’d love it if you can ask @galenkp and I wait your response
Thanks

I dunno why.

Are you using AI, are they quality articles? Are you trying to add value, or just extract value?

Nahhhh
All my articles are written by me and the only things I don’t own is my images which I always put the source aside from the ones I snap by myself