[Eng+Spa] Compliment Day in Front of the Mirror + Día de Decirse Cumplidos Frente al Espejo

in We Are Alive Tribe11 months ago
Hello World. My day today was a bit hectic; I was finally able to go buy materials for the repairs that we have pending at home, it was a bit heavy, but luckily a young neighbor helped me to get home with the purchase. So, I've been a little more tired and I suspect that tomorrow I'm going to be a bit 'beaten', because I'm very low in terms of my physical condition and my resistance, in short, getting old has its flaws (personal smile).

Apart from this, there is not much to report in my day, that is already a good thing, since not much has happened, and I like to have calm days in my #life. In another sense, following the style that I usually give to my record of the day, and in relation to the title of the publication, I suppose I have to say that despite the years that I have commented on the ephemeris of the different days in #History, I always get things that I didn't expect, that keeps my interest, and it was what led me to choose to comment that today is the 'Day to Compliment Yourself in Front of the Mirror'.

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Hola mundo. Mi día hoy estuvo un poco movido, por fin pude ir a comprar materiales para la reparación que tenemos pendiente en casa, fue un poco pesado, pero por suerte me ayudó un joven vecino para poder llegar con la compra a casa. Así que he estado un poco más cansado y sospecho que mañana voy a estar un poco ‘golpeado’, pues estoy muy bajo en cuando a mi forma física y mi resistencia, en fin, envejecer tiene sus defectos (sonrisa personal).

Fuera de esto, no hay mucho que reportar en mi día, eso ya es algo bueno, puesto que no ha pasado gran cosa y a mí me gusta tener días calmados en mi #vida. En otro sentido, siguiendo el estilo que le suelo dar a mi registro del día, y en relación con el título de la publicación, supongo que tengo que decir que a pesar de los años que tengo comentando efemérides de los distintos días en la #Historia, siempre consigo cosas que no me esperaba, eso mantiene mi interés y fue lo que me llevó a elegir comentar sobre que hoy es el ‘Día de Decirse Cumplidos Frente al Espejo’.

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Certainly, I did not expect that there would be a date for this celebration, it seemed strange to me and at first I could not find reference to the reason for the celebration, but after a while I was able to confirm one thing that I suspected, this date began in the United States as a national date, proposal to stimulate personal #compliment or #praise to oneself, used as part of stimulus therapies to overcome depressive states, personal reaffirmation, and treatments to overcome low self-esteem.

I remember a bit of this technique of giving yourself good words, in front of a mirror or without the mirror, although they said it was better with the mirror, because the image itself helped make it more effective, they said. The idea was very fashionable a few decades ago and was raised as a way to reprogram negative and destructive thinking. Personally, I found it interesting, but I think that it depended a lot on the self-hypnosis capacity that the person could achieve, in addition to the fact that it did not address the environmental cause of low self-esteem itself, it did not recommend cutting toxic relationships that harmed the #mind, and did not have pharmacology follow-up for severe cases.

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Ciertamente, no me esperaba que hubiera una fecha para esta celebración, me pareció raro y en un inicio no encontraba referencia al motivo de la celebración, pero luego de un rato pude confirmar una cosa que sospechaba, esta fecha comenzó en los Estados Unidos como una fecha nacional, propuesta para estimular el #halago personal o el #elogio a uno mismo, usado como parte de terapias de estímulo para superación de estados depresivos, reafirmación personal, y tratamientos para superar baja autoestima.

Recuerdo un poco de esta técnica de darse buenas palabras uno mismo, ante un espejo o sin el espejo, aunque decían que era mejor con el espejo, pues la imagen propia ayudaba a que fuera más efectivo, según decían. La idea estaba muy de moda hace unas décadas y se planteaba como una manera de reprogramar el pensamiento negativo y destructivo. En lo personal lo encontré interesante, pero creo que se dependía mucho de la capacidad de autohipnosis que la persona pudiera lograr, además de que no atendía en sí la causa ambiental de la baja autoestima, no recomendaba cortar relaciones tóxicas que perjudicaban la #mente, y no tenía acompañamiento de farmacología para casos severos.

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Well, it's not that it's totally ineffective, but it's more like a complementary #therapy than a comprehensive therapy by itself, at least from my personal experience. This really brings back memories, but it still amazes me that a day was set to celebrate this act of flattering yourself in front of a mirror.

I think I am in favor of doing what is celebrated on this date, after all, you can try to say realistic compliments and encourage yourself to keep going, stay optimistic and remind ourselves that we are valuable. It is something that can help, it does not cost much, and it leads us to think what good thing we can say to ourselves, because it is much better if we do not lie to ourselves, that is, we praise ourselves for things that we can consider true, and we give ourselves positive recognition that sometimes our environment, and the people who surround us in our lives, take it for granted and therefore forget to point out that it is a good thing.

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Bueno, no es que sea ineficaz totalmente, pero es más como una #terapia complementaria que una terapia integral por sí misma, por lo menos desde mi experiencia personal. De verdad que esto me trae recuerdos, pero me sigue sorprendiendo que se estableciera un día para celebrar esta acción de darse halagos ante un espejo.

Creo que soy partidario de hacer lo que se celebra en esta fecha, después de todo, se puede tratar de decir halagos realistas y estimular a uno mismo a seguir adelante, mantener el optimismo y recordarnos que somos valiosos. Es algo que puede ayudar, no cuesta mucho y nos lleva a pensar que cosa buena podemos decir a nosotros mismos, pues en mucho mejor si no nos mentimos, es decir, nos damos elogios por cosas que podemos considerar ciertas y nos damos el reconocimiento positivo que en ocasiones nuestro ambiente, y la gente que nos rodea en nuestra vida, da por tácito y por ello olvidan señalar que es algo bueno.

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So, even if Monday is almost over, and you read this on another day, it wouldn't hurt to think about your good points and give yourself a little praise when you see yourself in the mirror again (smile knowing). I say goodbye, wishing you that you are well, that you give yourself good #compliments, even better if the people around you recognize your value and praise you, also wishing that we can read each other again another time.

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Así que, aunque ya esté por terminar el día lunes y leas esto en otro día, no te vendría mal pensar sobre tus puntos buenos y darte un pequeño elogio a ti mismo cuando te veas de nuevo en el espejo (sonrisa cómplice). Ya me despido, deseándote que tú estés bien, que te des buenos halagos a ti mismo, mejor aún si las personas a tu alrededor reconocen tu valor y te elogian, además, deseando que nos podamos leer de nuevo en otra oportunidad.

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