What If I Don't See Results?

in We Are Alive Tribe4 months ago

Hello beautiful people! Happy New year to you all! 2024 has begun already, and I am sure we all have set goals for the year already, right? And even if you haven't, this first week is still a great time to sit down and set some because as you can see, the year is already moving fast...

But this post is not intended to teach you how to set goals. Rather I would like to share with you what my reaction or response will be if (by the time we are halfway down the year) I do not see the results I expect to achieve with my set goals.

You see, I don't have problems with setting goals. For instance, some of the goals I have set for this year include, but are not limited to:

🟠Health and wellness ( focusing on weight-loss and mental wellbeing).
🟠Finacial growth (both in the crypto world and otherwise).
🟠Business goals (launching a new Tech business, while still growing my current educational business).
🟠Hive growth (building meaningful connections and becoming more visible).
Etc etc

In the past, when I couldn't see myself getting near my desired results by the middle of the year, I lost motivation and just went with the flow. At the end of the year, it was like just going back to point zero. It really makes me sad, you know. And so, I had to sit down and think deeply...

So how will I react if I find things not going as desired by middle of 2024?
🔸️I will go back to my drawing board.
🔸️I will be honest with myself, giving myself a pat on the back where I deserve it.
🔸️I will educate myself more on the particular goal reading up or getting a mentor.
🔸️I will restrategize and do things differently to see what works better.
🔸️I will seek help and advice from those who already have the results I seek.
🔸️There is no time for me to play the victim or feel sorry for myself.

Now writing this post, I am asking myself, "Why didn't you do this when you faced this same issue in the past?" That is my inner critic, guys, and I am not going to fall into the trap of beating myself down because of what I did or failed to do in the past. I am facing the future with positivity and just being honest with myself, hehehe.

If you have read to this point, and you are wondering why I wrote all this... It is because @kenechukwu97 inspired me with this thought-provoking post on being a wild thinker

So this post is actually my entry to the January edition of the contest holding in The Thinker's Corner. Get more details here.

Thank you for reading. I, @ngwinndave, authored this post. The photo in this post is mine.Feel free to share your thoughts in the comments. I will respond as quickly as I can. What would you do if you find yourself in the kind of situation I wrote about. I would love to read if you tag me in your own post, hehehe.

Thanks once again.

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Such kind words! Yesssss, I will enjoy the ride, focusing on NOW! Thank you.

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If things doesn't work as planned all you have to do is pray. You can be doing things right but in the wrong direction
That's were restragezing comes in
Thank you for sharing. if I have time, will join in contest.

Beautiful point you have there, @graciousvic! Prayer is definitely the first thing to do before restrategizing. It would be great if you join the contest, hehehe!

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Facing the future with positive mind set, hmmm, I agree with this statement, that is the spirit, what you can't imagine, you can't see, thanks for sharing.

Yes, yes! Having a positive mindset puts us ahead of the game. Thanks for being here.

NG. Wow! This post is a very thoughtful one and I really enjoyed the part where you asked yourself why you didn't go back to re-strategize when things had a rough turn during 2023.

I believe many people need to ask themselves that question because we always seem to know what is right, but we find it hard to practice that when we really need to get things done.

Thanks for sharing this with us. 2024 has to be the year when you will hit the ground run and give yourself time to replan and re-execute your plans, even if you experience unfavorable results in the middle of the year.

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You've highlighted things you intend to do this year and what to do if the plans falls through and I do agree that we shouldn't let the critic part of us beat us down and make us lose the sight of hope in getting things fixed.

Absolutely! Taking control of our thoughts and emotions will help us keep things in the right perspective.

That's right. Thanks for stopping by 😊

Oh, this is a good way to be on your goals, no time to feel sorry at all, just get to work. Nice entry.

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Thanks, @amiegeoffrey. Time to get to work, fellow dreemer.

Yeah time to get to work.

Exactly! When you don't get the desired results, crying over spilt milk won't bring forth any solution. Rather, one should try out other methods, seek advice from others and see how it goes. There will surely be a difference especially when one puts in more efforts.

#Dreemerforlife.

Going back to the drawing board, patting yourself for the little wins so far, all these are wonderful to overcoming depression and frustration.

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I know, right 😂, how can someone even get something done when feeling depressed and frustrated?

So true